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TwoGoobers·Two GoobersbyBubs

TwoGoobers is on an indefinite hiatus.

I just recently lost the close connection I had with my best friend. They were the whole reason I made this community in the first place. We weren't a couple, but the loss still hurts incredibly so.

It's safe to say that I won't be posting her for a long while. A big chunk of my heart is gone.

Others are still welcome to post pics of their own here. I will keep moderating the community if the need arises, but won't be posting myself.

I really appreciate all the goobery love everyone shared here. This has been my favorite community I've been a part of here on Lemmy.

Take care you lovely Goobers

– Bubs

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trans·TransbyBubs

Best brands/websites for chest binders?

Hello!

Figured I would bring this question by you all here since stuff like this would be right up your alley. I'm completely out of my league when it comes to things like these lol.

My best friend recently realized how some of her feelings are actually gender dysphoria. She's beginning to figure out herself and all these odd feelings she's having. She doesn't care what labels people use, but is leaning towards non-binary as what she feels she is.

Essentially, she hates the way her chest feels sometimes and expressed interest in getting a binder. What are some good recommended brands for chest binders?

Also, I don't really have any idea of what features or whatnots to look out for when it comes to binders, so any guidance or tips would be much appreciated.

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DiscordAlternatives·Discord AlternativesbyBubs

Incomplete List of Discord Alternatives - Sticky Post

This is a very incomplete post (so far) of discord alternatives. In the near future, I'll add rankings and in depth information on each alternative. Stuff may be slightly inaccurate or miscategorized for a little while as I start my research. I will also add links and other info as time goes on.

Discord like

  • Stoat (formerly Revolt)
  • Mattermost ($$$ Built for enterprise)

Signal Like

  • Matrix

Teamspeak Like

  • Mumble

Slack Like

  • Rocket.Chat

Forum Like

  • Discourse

Need to Categorize

  • Zulip
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DiscordAlternatives·Discord AlternativesbyBubs

Welcome! A place for discussion and resources about discord alternatives.

Not much here yet, but I plan to populate this community with various resources about all the potential alternatives for discord. I'll mainly focus on programs like discord, but I'll also share some about other alternatives similar to programs like Teamspeak or Signal.

Feel free to post any articles, reviews, etc you find or any general discussion you may have.

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unixsocks·unixsocks on fediverse byBubs

I want to get my first pair of thigh-highs. What do you recommend?

Instead of trying to scour the web for (usually Ai generated) recommendations, I figured I would come where the experts are at :3

I absolutely love compression on my legs, so, while I don't really visit communities like here, I can see there are lots of people here that have the knowledge. If there's a better community to post this to, I can move it there.

I need socks that are suitable for tall and skinny. 5' 10" and about 130lb. I would like ones that teach the upper thigh if that's a thing. I would use them mainly for sleeping or lounging around, so ones that resist slipping would be great. As far as budget, $40 max, but I'd prefer under $30. I'm in the US by the way.

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