Nah I've almost died a couple of times and it never even occurred to me to ask for assistance from anyone other than the doctor.

Well, it's what I always heard. But I'll retract my previous comment.

American highschool teacher?

I'm in my early 40s and have 4 kids so I know the feeling. Just recently (last couple of days) came to the conclusion that I'm probably trans. Now that I know I want to do hrt and live my best life, but I haven't told my partner. Despite how sure I am about this, I don't know how to broach the subject with my partner. She's bi, but she likes her men masculine and her women feminine so there would be a couple of rough years there. But I do very much want to transition.

It's light refracting through otherwise invisible bacteria on your eyeball.

NB. This comment has since been retracted by the author.