I am not affiliated with them. I just saw it and wanted to share.

It's a little zine with art, poetry and writing about bisexuality. If you have trouble viewing the tumblr post, here is the link to the pdf of the zine. (Google Drive warning)

So, the TVTropes page states him to be Ambiguously Bi, as he is confirmed to have a female love interest (Squilvia) but not confirmed to have any male love interests explicitly stated. However, though I haven't seen the Sandy Cheeks movie, there is an instance, apparently, of him finding Sandy's brother Randy so attractive that he faints. A Sexypedia article claims that as of "Saving Bikini Bottom: A Sandy Cheeks Movie, Squidward is canonically bisexual, as he is seen openly simping for fellow Sexyman Randy Cheeks. Squidward's bisexuality should not come as a surprise to most fans of the show, or anyone who has seen certain theories regarding him."

In Squisery from Kamp Koral, there is the following scene of Patrick and Squidward seemingly doing romantic things together, like Patrick making Squidward soup, Squidward imagining Patrick as a blonde muscular guy while idolizing him and looking amazed and seemingly falling in love with him.

Plus, he is widely headcanoned to be bi.

I had never had any sexual experiences with another male. Although I was always curious. My wife and I are in a small minority of spouse swapping. That has always been a hetero thing. Me and the other guy fuck each others wife.

A few days ago we were doing a swap with a couple that we have known for a few years. The guy and I have a friendship outside of just the sex thing. Things like going to a ball game or out for a few drinks. Nothing homo was ever discussed.

This swap began like others with this couple. The wives get themselves ready and me an the guy are naked waiting for them. Ted, the other husband, for some reason notices me staring at his erect cock. He asks me if I would like to suck it. And I immediately said "yeah, I've always wanted to see what sucking a cock was like."

So I get to work sucking on it. He very slowly reaches around and sticks a finger in my ass. And that really set me off. At this point he tells me that he is actually bi and sometimes the swaps he does with his wife involve some same sex play.

I was surprised because he never gave any indication that he went both ways. At this point he asks, "would you like to experience me fucking you?" I said I wanted to try it but he had to stop if I was having a problem with it.

He bent me over and went to work lubing me up with the array of lubes that we normally use on the wives. At this point our nude wives come into the room and are fascinated watching Ted as he starts to ease his cock into my ass.

It sure was a strange feeling. A bit uncomfortable at first. But it started to feel really good. As Ted gripped and squeezed my hips I started thinking about all the women I had fucked just like this.

In just a few minutes Ted was grunting and he shot a load into my ass. I was out of breath. We both cleaned ourselves up. And continued to the plan of fucking each others wife.

We never spoke about this the rest of the evening or since. Even my wife never brought it up.

At this point I am confused. Was this a one and done for me or am I definitely bi.

I'm a fem nonbinary person and I find that I tend to switch between liking men, liking women, and liking both. I don't know why that is. Maybe it's the "bi-cycle" or something.

I don't know how many times I've broken up with a woman because I thought I only liked men, it's weird.

eric, one of my crushes, and my ex Sophie are both aromantic 😭 😭

so, i'm using fake names, but their real names all start with "j" and i think i'll find a long-lasting partner whose name starts with "j" too, or for example with the fake names:

first off, this guy i crushed on in elementary school, my best friend ethan.

next, this guy i dated, emilio.

then, eliana.

then, my current crush eric.

yep, my next partner is definitely gonna have a fake name starting with E and a real name of J. maybe it'll be eric, who knows??

Edit: and i can’t forget my therapy crush, “eileen”

crosspostato da: https://thelemmy.club/post/35015004

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TL;DR i had a crush on my friend eric, then my feelings i thought went away and i decided to get to know my friend sophie. i developed feelings for sophie and we started dating but we recently broke up because it wasn't working out and my feelings for eric are resurfacing.

i started becoming friends with a guy, eric, and a girl, sophie. i genuinely thought eric would be the quiet type who doesn't like people, but he really liked me (platonically) and we got along really quickly. i found out he was really funny, too, and i don't judge a book by its cover anymore.

meanwhile, i met sophie, who was exactly my type too. once we started talking more and getting to know each other, i started really liking her. she was so kind, funny, and nerdy. she was kind of like eric but a girl and less socially awkward.

i'm bi but thought i was a lesbian at the time, so my feelings for eric started to fade and i started developing more feelings for sophie. i wanted a girlfriend at the time, too, so i decided to get closer to sophie.

also, these two boys, sophie's friends michael and aaron were already together after aaron asked him out twice. michael said no the first time because he just broke up with someone, then yes later on.

this inspired me to work up the courage to confess to sophie, and she said she'd love to get to know me better and "talk" before dating.

i started "talking to" her and she eventually asked me out and gave me gifts. she talked about how she would be such a good girlfriend to me and make me stuff and treat me right and all that.

i loved it.

later, i found i was doing a lot more for sophie than sophie did for me, such as buying her gifts and making her stuff when she thanked me and said it was "too early for that".

she would give me hugs and hold hands, but also thought it was too early for kisses. i respected that, but it wasn't meeting my needs for a physical connection as a person with strong physical desires like that.

yesterday, she texted me that we needed to talk. she told me this wasn't going to work, and that she's actually aromantic, but it was "her, not me" (i think it's no one's fault but still).

she, however, wanted to enter a talking stage yet again but "be friends at the same time" to see if we could make things work, because she said she really liked me, just not that way, obviously.

she also said we didn't instantly form a connection or become best friends instantly, so the relationship wouldn't work in the future because of that(???)

meanwhile, eric never outright said he had feelings for me, and i don't wanna ask or do anything just yet because i just sort of got out of a relationship that i don't know if i'm still kinda in, but my old feelings for him are coming back and i discovered i repressed my feelings for men. i am indeed, bisexual.

SERIOUSLY AS A BI DUDE I LOVE WOMEN SO MUCH 😳 💕

So, I did think I was a straight guy, but I am bi and just prefer women >w<

Given my Elder Millenial age group, the mid ninties as the birth of bisexuality rings pretty true on a personal level.

But as someone who thinks that bi is the most natural of sexualites, it's probably the only one that didn't need to be "invented". Homosexuality in the modern sense is quite recent (although same sex attraction itself is timeless) and heterosexuality seems to require an awful lot of policing and enforcement for something that's meant to be "natural"...

Whether the finger guns and leather jackets have always been part of bi identify remains a question for cultural archaeologists.

I shall try and sleep. I do hope everyone rests well, please.

I find both men and women attractive in their own ways, but I could never see myself dating a woman. I want a boyfriend. I don't look at romance games or stories where the protagonist romances a girl either because it's not relatable to me. Only men. Do I just prefer men or am I just straight?

I've got a bi flag stripe going on the fediverse Canvas, if anyone wants to join in and help fill it in.

https://canvas.fediverse.events/

so ‘alina’ and ‘liam’ are both people i’m interested in. as it turns out, they both like me too. alina has been my friend for a year and liam, two years.

alina is a good artist and she’s always making stuff for me and drawing stuff for me. liam is always complimenting me when we talk. liam is the cute nerdy type while alina is like the pretty artist.

both of them have confessed to me and i like both of them, and each know about my crush. what the heck do i do!???

how do i choose a boyfriend or girlfriend???

We’ve been dating for two years and i love her sodososooos much!! I wouldn’t want anyone else hehehe :3

Now I’m dating this girl Nastya and stopped liking this guy who probably despised me, Karl.

Let's discuss bisexual erasure. Have you experienced it? How has it affected you?

I've experienced erasure, I prefer feminine energy regardless of gender, as such I've had my sexuality dismissed by 'friends' and colleagues with statements like "that's just straight and horny" or the other end of the spectrum: "you're gay but clinging to social pressures"

I'm in a hetero-presenting relationship which just fuels the presumption of heterosexuality. I've been celebrated for being an ally and immediately dismissed when I suggested that I'm not an ally but a member. Makes seeing myself as a member... difficult.

There's a tension in some LGBTQ communities- lesbian communities in particular (gold star).

I'm interested in your feelings/experiences with erasure.

im so goooddd!!!! :DD