Only tangentially related, but I went to an Ashley Gavin show this past weekend on a first date with a woman who told me she’s questioning if she’s asexual or not (I am not ace myself), and our chemistry was off the charts and we’re going on a second date next week, and I just think that’s neat and aces are neat :3
That's pretty cool. How do you think you would handle the difference in sexuality if you were in a relationship with someone and you would like to have sex and she isn't interested in such activities? Just curious. 😊
I’ve actually been in love with someone who is ace before, and I just feel like, for me emotional compatibility comes first. If there was never any sex, I know how to take care of my needs all on my own, but emotional compatibility is so much harder to find than sexual satisfaction.
I mean, sure, jerking off is okay (but oh how much more boring than to make love to your wife though), but for me, connecting physically is a big part of the relationship as well. I'm not sure I could handle no sexual intimacy, if I'm being completely honest. 😅
But you know what, I think it's so freaking awesome that it isn't a big deal for other people. Shout out to compatibility! 🫶😊
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Only tangentially related, but I went to an Ashley Gavin show this past weekend on a first date with a woman who told me she’s questioning if she’s asexual or not (I am not ace myself), and our chemistry was off the charts and we’re going on a second date next week, and I just think that’s neat and aces are neat :3
That's pretty cool. How do you think you would handle the difference in sexuality if you were in a relationship with someone and you would like to have sex and she isn't interested in such activities? Just curious. 😊
I’ve actually been in love with someone who is ace before, and I just feel like, for me emotional compatibility comes first. If there was never any sex, I know how to take care of my needs all on my own, but emotional compatibility is so much harder to find than sexual satisfaction.
I mean, sure, jerking off is okay (but oh how much more boring than to make love to your wife though), but for me, connecting physically is a big part of the relationship as well. I'm not sure I could handle no sexual intimacy, if I'm being completely honest. 😅
But you know what, I think it's so freaking awesome that it isn't a big deal for other people. Shout out to compatibility! 🫶😊
This was exhilarating.
Poor Oscar! I felt his awkwardness at first, but I think it worked our well in the end, and he seemed to have fun as well.
I would absolutely go out drinking with him!
If I wasn’t a woman, I would love him so much.