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sh.itjust.works

Anticipation + release + comfort = a happy, satisfied, leaking mess

I know from experience, giving and receiving

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I swear, you're the most relatable person on here, to me at least 😂
Cause happy, satisfied, leaking mess is like spot-on
But you also have experience with both giving and receiving which makes it even cooler

Please keep being awesome ♥️

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sopuli.xyz

Aftercare is just as important as foreplay. It's important that we put our toys back together when we break them. Water, cuddles, praise, validation for all of the good girls.

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sopuli.xyz

Should start a thread for bdsmtest results honestly

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sopuli.xyz

I don't know why I'm surprised there is already a thread for that. Also Dom-sense is a thing. I already knew you were as submissive as it is possible to be just from your posts.
Anyway, might as well post mine.

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I don't think it's "dom-sense" when they're literally going around shouting it as loudly as possible. Lol.

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lemmy.zip

I took this a long time ago and have purposely not retaken it so I can say these are my most recent results:

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You're neither the enigma or enemy you think you are. Just from our fighting I've already figured you out.

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sopuli.xyz

You should communicate your needs for dominance and structure to your partner. You sound like a prime candidate for lifestyle bdsm. It can be very rewarding, as long as the communication is clear and open, and you both have decent emotional intelligence as well as healthy conflict resolution skills.

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decent emotional intelligence

healthy conflict resolution skills

I'd say she needs more time to grow, actually. (Not gonna lie, so do I.) The frequent "pauses" they take from each other indicate that relationship counselling is overdue (I found her a local, free, LGBTQ+friendly clinic but she wouldn't go)

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lemmy.world

If aftercare is extremely important than you are doing it for the aftercare, don’t lie yourself

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