I'm a switch and vers, so I do top. Luckily, I can be fine either way, I just want to experience both from time to time. My current gf is also a switch and vers, so that works out great! When we have sex with other people, I just adapt to the situation however feels natural.

For this in fiction, I enjoyed the Mistress On Her Knees books. Though it's not the usual timid level of BDSM seen in lesbian books (a plus for me).

Ticking this a little at the edges of my relationship at the moment, my partner seems to have a talent for topping.

Where is sauce?

Where?