What kink or fetish would make you instantly reject someone as a potential partner?
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As I was writing the question and thinking about this follow-up text you are reading I started confident there wouldn't be much capable of making me do such a thing but the more I thought about it the more the list expanded.
Scat and watersports. Needle, knife, blood play. Spanking. Humilliation. Degradation. Pony play. Fisting. Prolapse play. Power play.
As I'm writing it, I think I'm better off by putting a carpet ban on most BDSM and be done with it, just to be on the safe side. I'm bland and not afraid to admit it.
Furries. Honestly, somebody explain it to me; I can't find any appeal in antropomorphic animal suits. Makes no sense. I'm glad some find it fun but it would be something I would struggle to fit in my life.
Cuckholding and cuckqueaning. Food play and feeding fetish. Biting and vore, by extension. CNC.
I'm going to stop here and sit a bit with myself and check just how much of a deviant I am or I think I am.
honestly, only fairly hard stuff:
Knife/blood/feces play
Diaper Play.
Infantification.
actual choking
I do not have a dominant bone in my body. Anyone who would want me to dominate them in any way just would not be sexually compatible with me. Submission is integral to my sexuality.
I like fantasizing about some of the hard stuff (except scat, yuck) but there’s a line between fantasy and reality.
I have absolutely zero tolerance for anything involving age play.
I try not to think like that, tbh. Anything sufficiently unusual that you're sufficiently not into is going to mean you're just not a good match, why not leave it at that? You don't need to understand anyone's kinks. Very nearly by definition that's why they're kinks
Diaper play
Anything with diapers is a hard no.
I always wondered how much upbringing affects sexual fetishes... I have a theory that the more repressive it was, more extreme fetishes develop to counterbalance, but I have very very little to base it...
I come from a culture that nudity wasn't a taboo, and in my family and social circle there wasn't much taboo about sex and porn... also experiencing the internet before social media and its massive censorship, well, when I was 12 my friends and I would send stuff like Tubgirl to each other (and I started at 12 because that's when I got my first computer, probably would have started sooner if I had it before lol), and in fact at the time Japanese porn was known for how bizarre it was, everything involved eels, scat and messed up stuff, and we'd send clips to each other same way years later people were sending 2girls1cup, we didn't consider it really porn or sexually arousing, just funny... so, close irl friends and I, grew up without taboo over nudity, contact with softcore porn very early, contact with most extreme fetishes on early adolescence, and we all vanilla as fuck (and even back then I thought the reason Japanese porn was so bizarre was because they had to censor genitals on porn and their society overall was very repressive, so they got weirder and weirder to overcome the frustration), so regarding OP's question, I'm pretty much on the same boat
I agree with you. That is a very well thought answer.
Yep, Cuckolding is something that would make me think thebrelationship is doomed, Blood play (I don't want to be a victim), anyone who actually wants to eat me, snuff, if they insist on scat, pedos, anything that is downright unethical, or I believe will make me a victim.
Even if I don't like certain kinks, it is not a dealbreaker as we can see.