How do I maintain my slut lifestyle with a stomach wound?
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I usually take guys anonymously, face down ass-up. It is one of my favorite things to do.
However, I just got out of the hospital and now will basically have a giant open wound on my belly for a while. I can’t really lie on my belly.
What are some good positions that don’t involve any pressure on the stomach? Missionary just never really does it for me.
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You probably shouldn't for 2 weeks unless you want to be out of commission for longer.
Chair.
It feels silly, but it kinda is. The doc cleared me for sex in general, but it’s kinda difficult to be like “what is the safest way for me to do the crazy masochistic sex I like?”
When the EMTs picked me up they got to see my entire “set-up” too (lots and lots of dick paintings, and “instructions” for using me). It’s such a big part of my life, it feels like I’m an athlete being benched for a season, but I can’t even kvetch about it to anyone IRL.
So what I'm hearing is we have a new orifice in play.
eh, the guro I like is more decapitation and strangulation then guts. I’ll be covering up as much of it as possible, although I do have a regular that might like to threaten me with wound fucking.
We want to see the holes .
Hmmm, bit of a tricky one to be fair. Most submissive positions would normally involve you risking hurting yourself in some way. Could you bend over a bench or something, putting weight on your hands?
Joining the party late on this one, but maybe try the 'full nelson' position? You're still facing away, but there shouldn't be anything contacting the abdomen. You can modify it by changing the position from fully lying down all the way to sitting up.
Get a bed wedge. Wheelbarrow will put some pressure on the abdomen, but you can relieve some of it by putting a bed wedge under your bottom. This should move the pressure to your chest/upper back. Then put your ankles up on a male partner's shoulders.
There's also cowgirl, but put the bed wedge on his lower legs and lie back on it. Hold his hands and let him pull you toward and push you away, sliding you back and forth.
Wrap the wound well and wear one of those things, I forget what it's called, but it just covers the belly. Like if you imagine you're wearing a halter top with long sleeves, a hood, and long pants with shoes. Now invert the clothes — only your midriff is covered. It's a hot look for your partner and it will help promote healing. Well, the bandage will do that, but it will cover the bandage which may help with your confidence.
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