It’s like the epitome of a person who has decided that they can’t possibly be the problem.
You pretty much answered your own question. I suspect most people in that catagory are unwilling or incapable of the introspection necessary to realise they could achieve their desires, but they'll need to improve themselves first.
There’s no accounting for taste
If I'm at a cruising event that's a great line.
If I'm at a mixer that's coming off way too strong.
Wait. Bad puns means you use Microsoft Office now!? Dammit
You pretty much answered your own question. I suspect most people in that catagory are unwilling or incapable of the introspection necessary to realise they could achieve their desires, but they'll need to improve themselves first.