Spyke

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Maxxie
piefed.blahaj.zone

is anyone still arguing about it? I thought this stayed in 201X together with bi-vs-pan debate

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birdwingreply
lemmy.blahaj.zone

personally I have genuinely no idea what a xenogender is, but my personal opinion is

E/T + valid + did ask + ratiowiki + win + queer + slay etc.

for sexual and romance same, so long as it's between consenting ppl of mature enough age, who cares

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rumschlumpelreply
feddit.org

I see you haven't been around for the dragonfucker controversy on blahaj.

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rumschlumpelreply
feddit.org

IIRC they (dragon?) have been banned for abusive comments or messages, but don't quote me on that (I might not, in fact, remember correctly).

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lemmy.world

I just tried reading about xenogender and can't say it made any sense.

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To be perfectly fair, as much as the whole inclusion thing of define your self how ever you want.

There is a reasonable point where it's basically just a glorified fetish. And this is basically that line. Not quite over it... But like on it...

I wouldn't go nearly so far as to say they are the reason for people mocking the whole thing. But they do basically define themselves by the very extreme absurd standards those who mock think about when the topic is raised. Which as fucked as it is, factually doesn't help the situation.

It's sorta like the line between a nudist and a exhibitionist. Even if you claim your a the former you have literally in all but name became the latter.

There's only so much you can reasonable push general cultural norms before frankly you are the problem not everyone else. But so long as it's not harming anyone its entirely reasonable to be the problem.

You just gotta acknowledge it, embrace it and share it. The problems in our lives is how we all grow after all

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ferret
sh.itjust.works

why did the cat-pilled orb lose it’s face cricle for the final frame?

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The reason transphobia exists is because of transphobes, it’s not xer fault.

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