How does 🐦 have 4 children, she's been a mom for 20 years, and doesn’t know how to replace their toothbrushes after having strep? 🐦 didn't get sick because she's never there, or if she is, her mom or Shane were taking care of everyone/everything.
Her “noticing things” project isn’t being launched right now bc it’s not the right time. You mean choosing joy and memes to cure all 72 of her afflictions/ailments?
I bet she's either launching something with that wacka doodle therapist whose podcast she was on, or it's the online subscription hypnotherapy person (who isn't a therapist)
She’s probably the type to never provide her kids with new toothbrushs bc she doesn’t seem to have a clue about anything. Idk who doesn’t change their toothbrush after being sick, I thought it was common knowledge.
“Always choose love” love yourself F everyone else 🤣 also the instant coffee makes a whole lot of sense now. 🐦 just tell everyone you have no idea how to make coffee and Shame isn’t there do it for you anymore.
LOL!!! Maybe thats gearing up for her new love story, she fell in love (on traitors) and decided to chase that 🤔
Side note: I know most of us are blocked but does anyone ever reply to her stories or comment on her posts and say “you’d never know you’re going through your second divorce” lol because I’d love to
It was a rookie mistake she made. 🤣 Always exposing their lack of actual experience for their cosplay careers. Watching the artist sculpt with her "hot tools" is equally amusing.
What a way to start a Saturday, the same old boring shtick! She’s really nothing since Shame left and she can’t post the kid anymore either. Now that she actually has to do stuff at home like watch the kids she posts a lot less since Shame isn’t taking on all the responsibility 24/7. That or she is still freely gallivanting around and doesn’t want to post who she’s with.
Hid all day yesterday. What’s the matter? Couldn’t post because of who she was with? Her coverage of the Bridgerton bs was basically just reposting photos she was tagged in. Didn’t even brag about her Fairmont hotel room.
She seemed to have no problem posting C a while back but ever since we started talking more about their relationship and then the divorce announcement she’s seemingly hiding them.
Shame must have dropped 🍋 off this morning. Cos playing mom of the year 🙄🙄🙄 How sad for that little girl who loves her mom, the witch who abandons her for every pointless opportunity handed her way.
So her phone CAN take high quality shots, but ONLY when the parts she usually filters aren't in frame. Interesting, I didn't know iPhone had that feature.
Exactly! What’s she’s doing isn’t breaking the mold, she’s just trying to get attention, so…same mold. She’s just trying to turn her own life into a reality TV script. I don’t even want to give her the comments to repost. She is really a looser.
Love the big advertising for hello fresh. Which is pretty bargain-basement partnership for an influencer, but also HORRIBLE for people who can’t do gluten. …Not that she’s going to eat anything.
She’s been posting food more often. She’s either playing the game of the shrinking weight loss influencers who show themselves eating huge portions from fast food places and Diet Coke to prove they eat or she’s trying to find filler content now that she can’t show L. Either way add it to the many, many things where she should not be an “influence”.
Literally the most boring content creator, she has nothing worthwhile going on and nothing to post. What a snooze. You’d still never know she was in the midst of a divorce either.
Also nobody wants those gross ass lips near their forehead for a kiss
They look like a pigs asshole 🐖 And for real, one story for the failure of her marriage with “the greatest love of her life” and she’s completely glossed it over while continuing to accept lavish opportunities. How her idiot fans can’t see how disgusting she is baffles me!
Oh it's being framed as something she's moving on from, stepping out to a new phase of life as though that marriage was something to endure and get through to truly find herself. EVERYTHING is always framed as something she overcomes, childhood, teenage years, marriages, birth... she basically says life always just happens to her in the worst of ways, but she fights and survives, like some kind of warrior. 🙄
She looks like a bish. She's talking to another influencer who is a very vocal queer person who I would die to have a conversation with. She's not even listening.
The way she showcases details on her borrowed clothes over and over but is on a brand trip and doesn’t name or explain the brand she fakes uses. This company is dumb for sending this lazy narcissist.
I also think she had a nose job when she first lost weight and an upper eyelift around 2018. No amount of Botox can lift lids as low as she had, to where they are now IRL. The filters on top make her even more ridiculous.
I can attest to this. You need a fair amount of laser treatments, etc to get rid of that many freckles. Who cares right. Just stop acting like you were born with and wake up with flawless skin. Showing your skin texture isn’t enough to show transparency.
Why is she pretending like this is a huge big deal? All the influencers there got their picture like this. Acting like she landed the cover of some magazine 🥸 strange behavior.
Meanwhile look around. They all got one. What in the make believe world does she live in
Sarah edited (shrunk) her neck more than her bust and waist, Sarah needs to get her editing together, normally our waist size is roughly double our neck circumference... Birdie, editing your neck so thin is a DEAD give away. FRAUD!
The "waist size is roughly double our neck circumference" measurement, is a trick that REAL fashion stylists use when sourcing garments. Sarah Nicole Landry and her pals don't know this 'trick' because they've never actually worked a day in the fashion industry. They have contributed to reducing that industry to nothing but amazon clicks.
She WOULD have a mug with her dumbass face on it, wonder which of her “friends” inflated her ego with this. Or did she inflate her own ego and get it made. Just screams something NB would get for her.
This is a bad tv show version of dressing up to greet your husband at the door. It's hanging out and glasses to play at being a "sexy secretary". 😆 So professhunul! A veree smart laydee!
These a-holes can't even give someone the respect and attention they deserve for even the briefest moment. Self-important social media addicted losers.
Always being a disrespectful twat. Someone gave their time and energy to lead that class but the fabulous Sarah Nicole can't pay attention and leave her phone alone for even a hot minute. Gross, rude-ass person.
Reminds me of her doing the same thing, scrolling her phone and being a useless lump during group yoga at that Caribbean retreat she went to with the other influencers
Yes!! This is all I think about when I see those strangely gargantuan, white ass teeth he decided to get. To each their own, but there's no way THAT was the end result he wanted. They look so ridiculous! I hope they have no black lights in their house 😂
Hey guys, I'm new here. I have been a 🐦 follower for..... Wow way before 🍋. I've always loved and enjoyed her. Recently, when she announced her separation from 🧔, I wondered how legit she is because she'd never mentioned anything at all. So I started searching for chats and there's sooooo many.
I'll be honest - some of your comments/convos sound like you're jealous or very high school. But I'm interested in legitimate, honest opinions/information.
I can assure you it’s not jealousy. Mostly I’m pissed she’s lying about filters, botox, fillers, etc - all while promoting skincare products. She’s being dishonest about a lot of things, and no one likes her exploiting her kids, particularly the youngest one. She also lied about having a full time nanny during the pandemic, making it seem like she was balancing it all on her own. I appreciate the validation this groups gives me in feeling betrayed.
I'm seeing that!! I was being legit and honest. Like, irl when someone "doesn't like someone" there's a level of jealousy there. Mention it here and I got my head bit off! I read the "intro" from Lemmy and now I'm falling through a huge rabbit hole of people who legitimately hate her and my eyes are very open now. I appreciate this discussion and correspondence.
People can dislike other people without being jealous. Comparison doesn't guide everyone's thought process, like it seems to for Sarah. For example, I don't like Trump. I'm not jealous of him. If you believe there is a level of jealousy when someone doesn't like someone, I can understand your attraction to the Birds Papaya. She may have felt like a comrade in arms. GumboYaYa made a great point about mothers who tell their daughters, “Oh, honey, they are just jealous of you”. My Mother never did that; maybe your mother and Sarah's mother did. I'm not saying this to shame you. Maybe those drawn to Sarah were raised by mothers who lacked self-awareness.
Ok let's chat then. But I'd appreciate it if you took a breather first.
Not liking her because she lies, deceits, uses filters, is genuinely a bad mother or wife - cool. I can get with that.
Making fun of her teeth, saying she is ugly, she "probably made so much money on that" - from an outsiders perspective, yeah, some of it sounds like jealousy; not in the "I wish I looked like her" way, but in a "I kind of wish I had what she has" way. Especially when you haven't met her or actually interacted with her.
THAT BEING SAID.
I have been reading tons of threads, posts, snarks (literally JUST discovered that word and what it means...) and while I see much of the disapproval of BP as legitimate (as I requested in my original post) perhaps the disdain has encompassed the persona AND the looks (that she manipulates and makes money off of).
So chill. There's no ulterior motive here. I'm genuinely curious, and up until literally a couple months ago, I was an avid follower of the BP and now I'm learning who she truly is and I, too, feel manipulated, lied to and like an utter fool for believing in her and genuinely liking her.
But attacking me - someone who you have never met - doesn't make you any better than her.
The assumption that when women call other women out for their bullshit means there is a level of jealously is wrong on many levels. That’s exactly what the person who is being called out says. It makes me think of the mothers who tell their daughters “oh honey they are just jealous of you” instead of helping their girls to grow and become self aware of their behaviors…we just say others are jealous. And they grow up never having learned how to see themselves. I am responding, respectfully, but in some ways defending the women who have grown tired of the lying that women influencers are doing and the damage it is causing.
I agree. Have you ever seen the show How I Met Your Mother when everyone realizes something about the other person in the group and there's a sound of a glass shattering? That's how it's felt for me lately. Just this....... "wait a minute" moment. I am feeling validated though!
I'm falling through a huge reddit rabbit hole. I'm just shocked..... I'm getting more and more appalled at this whole persona. And soooo embarrassed I fell for it 🤦🏼♀️
Hi, new here, wow! To be honest, you sound very grade 10, maipulative and suspect.
If you are new to #thebirdspapaya snark, why are you using symbols for Lemmie, Shane Landry and Sarah Nicole Landry? How did you know the exact symbols to use? Did you pick that up from cruising the Reddit pages for hours on end? Over here on Lemmy, we say Sarah's name.
"I'll be honest" is often used by people doing the opposite. So fess up, come clean. Who are you? What's your objective? I think you don't like Sarah and are using shame (jealous or very high school) to trigger emotional or aggressive responses about Sarah. Perhaps you want to generate a flurry of activity. What did she do to you? I'm interested in legitimate information. She fucked you over, didn't she?
Right? Not exactly the best intro 🧐 Jealousy implies that we want what birdshit has. We don’t want fake followers (literal strangers!), filtered morals, or affiliate links disguised as ‘authenticity.’ Criticism isn’t high school jealousy Gereminator—it’s discernment. There’s a difference!! We also don’t compete with people who sell integrity for commission. She is an ugly, shameful woman and a poor excuse of a mother.
Jealous that I don’t plagarize articles and pass them off as my own? I’ll pass, that’s not someone I look up to or aspire to be. It’s ok to call out shitty people as shitty people.
I love how it’s always the jealousy card 😂 our lives are FAR RICHER than hers. We hate her because she’s a greedy, tone deaf grifter who doesn’t parent her children, abandons them any chance she can get to be a spoiled, privileged “influencer” and is also a pathological liar. “Body positivity” while shooting Ozempic, tox and fillers and also filtering allllll her own photos. She’s a lying, greedy, spoiled little brat who does absolutely nothing to deserve the life of privilege she lives.
It's been about the last 4-6 months I've not enjoyed her content as much. I don't follow any other influencers at all, she was the only one. I just liked her, I guess. I messaged her about 4 months ago telling her I has a dream about her and that she, Shane and bailey were super tall, like 8 feet and she replied to me (I was pumped!) saying she actually is really tall and responded only about herself. The glass ceiling started cracking
Jealous? Why would I be jealous of someone who is clearly not happy with their life so they have to filter every part of themselves on top of getting work done to make herself look better (no shame against getting work done!! It’s just she does it but still filters herself and lies about it!!!!). Unlike her I actually love my family and don’t want to spend endless days and nights separated from them. Why would I be jealous of someone who is now going through their second divorce? She couldn’t even keep a marriage with a man that was her fairytale because she cared more about herself and her need to be away from that man and their child every chance she got. Why would I he ienaoieofspmeoje who has been accused for cheating and that’s why her relationship ended?
I don’t think anyone here is jealous of this trainwreck. But that’s always what people assume when she isn’t liked, you can just not like someone for the person they choose to be (and she chooses to be a shitty narcissistic one), it isn’t always about jealousy.
How does 🐦 have 4 children, she's been a mom for 20 years, and doesn’t know how to replace their toothbrushes after having strep? 🐦 didn't get sick because she's never there, or if she is, her mom or Shane were taking care of everyone/everything.
Her “noticing things” project isn’t being launched right now bc it’s not the right time. You mean choosing joy and memes to cure all 72 of her afflictions/ailments?
I bet she's either launching something with that wacka doodle therapist whose podcast she was on, or it's the online subscription hypnotherapy person (who isn't a therapist)
She’s probably the type to never provide her kids with new toothbrushs bc she doesn’t seem to have a clue about anything. Idk who doesn’t change their toothbrush after being sick, I thought it was common knowledge.
Now isn’t the time but next week everything will be perfect in the world eh? 😵💫
What's is this "noticing things" project?
Bird and noticing things are not compatible.
Did she say she was launching something? Who the f wants any kind of lessons from her?
“Always choose love” love yourself F everyone else 🤣 also the instant coffee makes a whole lot of sense now. 🐦 just tell everyone you have no idea how to make coffee and Shame isn’t there do it for you anymore.
Always choose love??? Says the 41 yr old who has 2 divorces hahah... Mmmm OK.
LOL!!! Maybe thats gearing up for her new love story, she fell in love (on traitors) and decided to chase that 🤔
Side note: I know most of us are blocked but does anyone ever reply to her stories or comment on her posts and say “you’d never know you’re going through your second divorce” lol because I’d love to
I wish I oculd. Comments like that got me blocked
I wonder if this is a coincidence....
High chance of no
Imagine posting a video of yourself crying over an almost failed art attempt with everything going on right now. JFC
It was a rookie mistake she made. 🤣 Always exposing their lack of actual experience for their cosplay careers. Watching the artist sculpt with her "hot tools" is equally amusing.
If you unfollow her, can you no longer see her stories? I don't see this.
Can someone explain this? It’s gone from her stories or I can’t find it.
This tool reposted a video of herself crying over glue that didn’t dry properly on her “art” Poor thing had to scrape it all off 🙄
Void and selfish. Boo hoo
Gotta love how she turns shopping for a dress for her daughter to all about her!
And ends it with a gifted pair of fucking Uggs from Browns Shoes. JFC gift it to a woman who needs them.
Go on girl, give us nothing with that ginger ale review. Why bother send her these things???
She's doing ginger ale reviews? Like a 1000 follower account? 🤪😆
She has to slum it with ginger ale because Diet Coke isn’t answering her desperate tags
Lmfao. Love that for her
*smacks lips “dang that’s good stuff” Wow thanks! Really selling the product.
Noooooo Canada Dry is my drink. 😩😩😩
Tried to dm them but their messages are limited 😑
Starting the day with some body shots. The lack of content and hiding must have her engagement down.
What a way to start a Saturday, the same old boring shtick! She’s really nothing since Shame left and she can’t post the kid anymore either. Now that she actually has to do stuff at home like watch the kids she posts a lot less since Shame isn’t taking on all the responsibility 24/7. That or she is still freely gallivanting around and doesn’t want to post who she’s with.
Hid all day yesterday. What’s the matter? Couldn’t post because of who she was with? Her coverage of the Bridgerton bs was basically just reposting photos she was tagged in. Didn’t even brag about her Fairmont hotel room.
She seemed to have no problem posting C a while back but ever since we started talking more about their relationship and then the divorce announcement she’s seemingly hiding them.
The way she's using her arm to pull back her stomach. Nice.
It’s all body checking. She is so obsessed (not used in a trendy way but truly) with her body. She is sick.
Yup!
Also the size of her hands compared to body lmfao. What a loser
The touching herself in this video was cringe. Just get an OF already.
I hate this trashy woman
Shame must have dropped 🍋 off this morning. Cos playing mom of the year 🙄🙄🙄 How sad for that little girl who loves her mom, the witch who abandons her for every pointless opportunity handed her way.
Never have I ever had to show social media my child loving me. Fucken loser she is.
It’s always so forced and rehearsed and to 🐦 benefit…poor kid!
Asking why she shared affection is super weird
I could never imagine doing this with my child for the camera, it’s just weird
I unfollowed her.
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In Sasha Exetor's #Caudalie video #thebirdspapaya looks a little different than her IG stories.
Can’t do the easiest of tasks…
Always “acting” any time a camera is near. Jut the jaw out, big expressions…exhausting.
Got herself a room at the Fairmont. All snuggled up watching Traitors, doubt she was alone.
Screw the kids right.
No seriously. That poor child 💔
Probably has mostly free weekends now.
My my what textured skin all of a sudden.
So her phone CAN take high quality shots, but ONLY when the parts she usually filters aren't in frame. Interesting, I didn't know iPhone had that feature.
Welcome to the “Fun with Filters” workshop.
This photo was so pointless, much like her entire online existence
That's some shade on birdie... 100%
Oh the brave one in her villain era, won’t name a single person and posts cryptic bs.
Exactly! What’s she’s doing isn’t breaking the mold, she’s just trying to get attention, so…same mold. She’s just trying to turn her own life into a reality TV script. I don’t even want to give her the comments to repost. She is really a looser.
Whose account is this??
It’s Renee’s, she seems desperate for attention.
Love the big advertising for hello fresh. Which is pretty bargain-basement partnership for an influencer, but also HORRIBLE for people who can’t do gluten. …Not that she’s going to eat anything.
She’s been posting food more often. She’s either playing the game of the shrinking weight loss influencers who show themselves eating huge portions from fast food places and Diet Coke to prove they eat or she’s trying to find filler content now that she can’t show L. Either way add it to the many, many things where she should not be an “influence”.
I’ve noticed too! Seems to be always posting food now.
She's got nothing else
Yeah I agree. The family content has disappeared.
Such a performative knob.
So embarassing
Lmfao.. Down the tube.
Her tile work (at home and the Pepto cabin) always looks like ham.
Literally the most boring content creator, she has nothing worthwhile going on and nothing to post. What a snooze. You’d still never know she was in the midst of a divorce either.
Also nobody wants those gross ass lips near their forehead for a kiss
They look like a pigs asshole 🐖 And for real, one story for the failure of her marriage with “the greatest love of her life” and she’s completely glossed it over while continuing to accept lavish opportunities. How her idiot fans can’t see how disgusting she is baffles me!
Oh it's being framed as something she's moving on from, stepping out to a new phase of life as though that marriage was something to endure and get through to truly find herself. EVERYTHING is always framed as something she overcomes, childhood, teenage years, marriages, birth... she basically says life always just happens to her in the worst of ways, but she fights and survives, like some kind of warrior. 🙄
That’s why she announced in her stories instead of a post. Limited knowledge so many (bots) won’t even know.
Soooo many of you were asking about my jacket!! I'm a size S #affiliate #partner #gifted
I was thinking the other day she doesn’t point out her size anymore when she posts outfits
Sasha posted a video where bird is front and centre. She looks awkward and bitchy all at the same time. You gotta watch the whole thing!
Doesn’t even look like she wants to be there. Definitely doesn’t give 2 shits about what that guy is saying.
Just standing there while others talk to each other
She looks hella awkward 😂 how the hell has she made it this far
She looks so uninterested and bitchy
She looks like a bish. She's talking to another influencer who is a very vocal queer person who I would die to have a conversation with. She's not even listening.
“Her go to” sure bird. Way to sell that cream.
The way she showcases details on her borrowed clothes over and over but is on a brand trip and doesn’t name or explain the brand she fakes uses. This company is dumb for sending this lazy narcissist.
Her editing makes her look like a cartoon. The super tiny neck is a joke. Here is a reality check for her.
I also think she had a nose job when she first lost weight and an upper eyelift around 2018. No amount of Botox can lift lids as low as she had, to where they are now IRL. The filters on top make her even more ridiculous.
@[email protected] always coming in clutch with the screenshots 🤣 and I guarantee she got an upper bleph. It’s so obvious
😂 I think she's had everything done. The more I look at old photos. She probably edited those as well. For you: more more side-by-sides.
Lol
I can’t 🤣🤣🤣
I can attest to this. You need a fair amount of laser treatments, etc to get rid of that many freckles. Who cares right. Just stop acting like you were born with and wake up with flawless skin. Showing your skin texture isn’t enough to show transparency.
Who's nose lol
Face blurred to high heaven
Always.
Sahajan tho, right?
Why is she pretending like this is a huge big deal? All the influencers there got their picture like this. Acting like she landed the cover of some magazine 🥸 strange behavior.
Meanwhile look around. They all got one. What in the make believe world does she live in
Look at this tragic mouth
Not even for the snark; this is actually terrifying, and gross
Who’s face is this 🤡😂
🗣 pay attention to meeeeee (but only if it's sexual in nature and/or makes me a victim.
Hate her so much. Imagining having to listen to these idiots in the hallway
Look how little I am. I can ride piggy back! She’s always having someone pick her up.
She’s been carried her whole life.
Like anyone needed to know this? She so crude.
Literally NO ONE needed to know what undergarments she was wearing. Why I called her a slut - attention whore 🤡
Her buddy Myles saw her grift a $200 hoodie so he sent the company a message and grifted one for himself? But ya don’t forget to support local ✌️
He's as bad as bird.
Has this slut even watched Bridgerton 😒
Looking wider
Sarah edited (shrunk) her neck more than her bust and waist, Sarah needs to get her editing together, normally our waist size is roughly double our neck circumference... Birdie, editing your neck so thin is a DEAD give away. FRAUD!
The "waist size is roughly double our neck circumference" measurement, is a trick that REAL fashion stylists use when sourcing garments. Sarah Nicole Landry and her pals don't know this 'trick' because they've never actually worked a day in the fashion industry. They have contributed to reducing that industry to nothing but amazon clicks.
This is not a flex Birdshit - you are not relevant in spite of the fantasy you believe 🤡
She WOULD have a mug with her dumbass face on it, wonder which of her “friends” inflated her ego with this. Or did she inflate her own ego and get it made. Just screams something NB would get for her.
Literally no one talked about this nobody.
Lol, one of the moments is her sipping coffee. Totally had this made herself.
She loves “the fashions”
She also walked into a kitchen to get cooking lessons like that
Truly such a bimbo
This is a bad tv show version of dressing up to greet your husband at the door. It's hanging out and glasses to play at being a "sexy secretary". 😆 So professhunul! A veree smart laydee!
Woof couldn’t cover up her tatas for a day with Caudalie 🥴
Keeping it classy as usual 😂
Yeah, that’s not what her boobs do. That’s what a filter does.
What's the story with BP and Ariana? Are they still friends?
Rarely see them together anymore. AJC commented bday wishes for 🍋 on Bird’s IG.
Should’ve been a no phones rule for yoga. She’s obsessed, probably the only person there scrolling during yoga.
Sasha was taking a selfie 🤣 this clown was in the background
These a-holes can't even give someone the respect and attention they deserve for even the briefest moment. Self-important social media addicted losers.
Always being a disrespectful twat. Someone gave their time and energy to lead that class but the fabulous Sarah Nicole can't pay attention and leave her phone alone for even a hot minute. Gross, rude-ass person.
Reminds me of her doing the same thing, scrolling her phone and being a useless lump during group yoga at that Caribbean retreat she went to with the other influencers
Have we talked about AM's hubby Scott's teeth? He looks like Ross when he got his teeth whitened.
His teeth LOOK LIKE TURKEY TEETH 😬
Yes!! This is all I think about when I see those strangely gargantuan, white ass teeth he decided to get. To each their own, but there's no way THAT was the end result he wanted. They look so ridiculous! I hope they have no black lights in their house 😂
Donkey teeth
In Sasha's video of Sarah, there still looks like some sort of filter is on. Look at her lips here.
Nice soft toy.
Hey guys, I'm new here. I have been a 🐦 follower for..... Wow way before 🍋. I've always loved and enjoyed her. Recently, when she announced her separation from 🧔, I wondered how legit she is because she'd never mentioned anything at all. So I started searching for chats and there's sooooo many.
I'll be honest - some of your comments/convos sound like you're jealous or very high school. But I'm interested in legitimate, honest opinions/information.
Thanks ☺️
I can assure you it’s not jealousy. Mostly I’m pissed she’s lying about filters, botox, fillers, etc - all while promoting skincare products. She’s being dishonest about a lot of things, and no one likes her exploiting her kids, particularly the youngest one. She also lied about having a full time nanny during the pandemic, making it seem like she was balancing it all on her own. I appreciate the validation this groups gives me in feeling betrayed.
I also don’t believe this is a “I’m just curious”, but I’m happy to point out the fraud she is again and again.
I'm just a normal mom from Alberta 🤷♀️
Sorry, easy to get defensive around here!
I'm seeing that!! I was being legit and honest. Like, irl when someone "doesn't like someone" there's a level of jealousy there. Mention it here and I got my head bit off! I read the "intro" from Lemmy and now I'm falling through a huge rabbit hole of people who legitimately hate her and my eyes are very open now. I appreciate this discussion and correspondence.
People can dislike other people without being jealous. Comparison doesn't guide everyone's thought process, like it seems to for Sarah. For example, I don't like Trump. I'm not jealous of him. If you believe there is a level of jealousy when someone doesn't like someone, I can understand your attraction to the Birds Papaya. She may have felt like a comrade in arms. GumboYaYa made a great point about mothers who tell their daughters, “Oh, honey, they are just jealous of you”. My Mother never did that; maybe your mother and Sarah's mother did. I'm not saying this to shame you. Maybe those drawn to Sarah were raised by mothers who lacked self-awareness.
Ok let's chat then. But I'd appreciate it if you took a breather first.
Not liking her because she lies, deceits, uses filters, is genuinely a bad mother or wife - cool. I can get with that.
Making fun of her teeth, saying she is ugly, she "probably made so much money on that" - from an outsiders perspective, yeah, some of it sounds like jealousy; not in the "I wish I looked like her" way, but in a "I kind of wish I had what she has" way. Especially when you haven't met her or actually interacted with her.
THAT BEING SAID. I have been reading tons of threads, posts, snarks (literally JUST discovered that word and what it means...) and while I see much of the disapproval of BP as legitimate (as I requested in my original post) perhaps the disdain has encompassed the persona AND the looks (that she manipulates and makes money off of).
So chill. There's no ulterior motive here. I'm genuinely curious, and up until literally a couple months ago, I was an avid follower of the BP and now I'm learning who she truly is and I, too, feel manipulated, lied to and like an utter fool for believing in her and genuinely liking her.
But attacking me - someone who you have never met - doesn't make you any better than her.
The assumption that when women call other women out for their bullshit means there is a level of jealously is wrong on many levels. That’s exactly what the person who is being called out says. It makes me think of the mothers who tell their daughters “oh honey they are just jealous of you” instead of helping their girls to grow and become self aware of their behaviors…we just say others are jealous. And they grow up never having learned how to see themselves. I am responding, respectfully, but in some ways defending the women who have grown tired of the lying that women influencers are doing and the damage it is causing.
Excellent points.
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You have to admit your wording wasn’t exactly the most open minded either though ( ie. using “jealous”)
I agree. Have you ever seen the show How I Met Your Mother when everyone realizes something about the other person in the group and there's a sound of a glass shattering? That's how it's felt for me lately. Just this....... "wait a minute" moment. I am feeling validated though!
If you poke around Reddit you’ll see comments from people who know her and find your feelings are correct
I'm falling through a huge reddit rabbit hole. I'm just shocked..... I'm getting more and more appalled at this whole persona. And soooo embarrassed I fell for it 🤦🏼♀️
We have all been there. Welcome!
Lmfao. Jealous of what? We actually just cant stand her. There is really no reason to explain why... Its obvious.
Hi, new here, wow! To be honest, you sound very grade 10, maipulative and suspect.
If you are new to #thebirdspapaya snark, why are you using symbols for Lemmie, Shane Landry and Sarah Nicole Landry? How did you know the exact symbols to use? Did you pick that up from cruising the Reddit pages for hours on end? Over here on Lemmy, we say Sarah's name.
"I'll be honest" is often used by people doing the opposite. So fess up, come clean. Who are you? What's your objective? I think you don't like Sarah and are using shame (jealous or very high school) to trigger emotional or aggressive responses about Sarah. Perhaps you want to generate a flurry of activity. What did she do to you? I'm interested in legitimate information. She fucked you over, didn't she?
Thanks 🥸
It's giving very "hello fellow peoples who do not like this lady, who I am definitely not, as you can see by my profile pic"
This 😂 or I'm Renee Reina, hoping to stir the pot.
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You seem nice. Yeah I did check reddit first and used the emojis to be nice. 🤷♀️
Nice of you to call the members of this group, jealous or very high school.
Right? Not exactly the best intro 🧐 Jealousy implies that we want what birdshit has. We don’t want fake followers (literal strangers!), filtered morals, or affiliate links disguised as ‘authenticity.’ Criticism isn’t high school jealousy Gereminator—it’s discernment. There’s a difference!! We also don’t compete with people who sell integrity for commission. She is an ugly, shameful woman and a poor excuse of a mother.
Jealous that I don’t plagarize articles and pass them off as my own? I’ll pass, that’s not someone I look up to or aspire to be. It’s ok to call out shitty people as shitty people.
I love how it’s always the jealousy card 😂 our lives are FAR RICHER than hers. We hate her because she’s a greedy, tone deaf grifter who doesn’t parent her children, abandons them any chance she can get to be a spoiled, privileged “influencer” and is also a pathological liar. “Body positivity” while shooting Ozempic, tox and fillers and also filtering allllll her own photos. She’s a lying, greedy, spoiled little brat who does absolutely nothing to deserve the life of privilege she lives.
Right! Jealous of what. She's a twice divorced, selfish twat.
Can you explain what you love about her content?
It's been about the last 4-6 months I've not enjoyed her content as much. I don't follow any other influencers at all, she was the only one. I just liked her, I guess. I messaged her about 4 months ago telling her I has a dream about her and that she, Shane and bailey were super tall, like 8 feet and she replied to me (I was pumped!) saying she actually is really tall and responded only about herself. The glass ceiling started cracking
She's literally disgusting.
Jealous? Why would I be jealous of someone who is clearly not happy with their life so they have to filter every part of themselves on top of getting work done to make herself look better (no shame against getting work done!! It’s just she does it but still filters herself and lies about it!!!!). Unlike her I actually love my family and don’t want to spend endless days and nights separated from them. Why would I be jealous of someone who is now going through their second divorce? She couldn’t even keep a marriage with a man that was her fairytale because she cared more about herself and her need to be away from that man and their child every chance she got. Why would I he ienaoieofspmeoje who has been accused for cheating and that’s why her relationship ended?
I don’t think anyone here is jealous of this trainwreck. But that’s always what people assume when she isn’t liked, you can just not like someone for the person they choose to be (and she chooses to be a shitty narcissistic one), it isn’t always about jealousy.