Aussiemandeus aussie.zoneI did this the other day to my wife. She asked why i put something there, i said i didn't do it you must have (she's 8months pregnant) so she said oh i guess I don't remember but I don't remember a lot at the moment. I remembered doing it the next day, but I've not told her34
festnt sh.itjust.works5Hide 5 replieswhich is why i always put an "i think" on anything my memory could mess up then, if they take it as correct, they gaslit themselves, because i was clear i wasn't 100% sure about it13
ccaptainlezbian replylemmy.world1Hide 1 replyI'm a huge fan of "I seem to recall" at least as far as I remember.6
pewgar_seemsimandroid replylemmy.blahaj.zone2Hide 2 replieswas (i think) ever a meme or is that the Mandela effect?2
HHowAbt2day replyfuturology.today3Hide 3 repliesI mean, which is the correct way to say it. On or by accident? I’ve heard it said both ways.3
NOT_RICK replylemmy.worldOn accident wouldn’t be considered correct in a formal context but it’s totally fine in an informal setting.5
bblazeknave lemmy.worldNeurodivergent families need to be open and not defensive or this accidental gaslighting can ruin childhoods.4
I did this the other day to my wife.
She asked why i put something there, i said i didn't do it you must have (she's 8months pregnant) so she said oh i guess I don't remember but I don't remember a lot at the moment.
I remembered doing it the next day, but I've not told her
There's no such thing as gaslighting. You made that up.
no it was me
which is why i always put an "i think" on anything my memory could mess up
then, if they take it as correct, they gaslit themselves, because i was clear i wasn't 100% sure about it
I'm a huge fan of "I seem to recall" at least as far as I remember.
i guess you are more of a "as far as I remember" fan
was (i think) ever a meme or is that the Mandela effect?
idk, i've never heard of it
i think
i pretty sure it was in ()
Is it “on accident” or “by accident”?
It’s never “on accident”.
i think that's the main punchline here
I mean, which is the correct way to say it. On or by accident? I’ve heard it said both ways.
On accident wouldn’t be considered correct in a formal context but it’s totally fine in an informal setting.
Just use accidentally. No confusion there
William DaFool is looking cute in this pic, BTW.
jeans with jirt
Maybe they gaslit you into thinking you had a bad memory
Neurodivergent families need to be open and not defensive or this accidental gaslighting can ruin childhoods.
I ja e a bad habit of doing this sometimes :(
Anyways, anyone remember that evil farming game?