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lemmy.blahaj.zone

I'm not sure I get it, is the point that Grindr is a hookup app, oriented around one-night stands and sex, while Hinge is targeted towards people who are looking for a long term relationship and aren't looking for a hookup?

also, I suspect this might be a weird meme for femcels who generally aren't on dating apps (or having sex, or having relationships, lol), or is that a bad assumption on my part?

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mandatory for participanting in femcel communities, but we should look into setting up an infrastructure to distribute and ensure compliance ๐Ÿ˜

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dandelionreply
lemmy.blahaj.zone

so you decided to post a meme about recognizing people on dating apps to a community of involuntarily celibate women? ๐Ÿคญ That's perfect, lol

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lemmy.world

If women here were voluntarily celibate, then they wouldn't use dating apps, it's involuntary, which mean they are trying but failing at it.

however, given how almost every post ends up having catgirl orgies, i doubt the femcell name applies.

here, I'll prove it to you:

meaw :3

(wait a few minutes)

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dandelionreply
lemmy.blahaj.zone

it would be interesting to know how many femcels are on dating apps, but I suspect most of them don't leave their bedroom (let alone go on dates, with actual humans, in the flesh)

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lemmy.blahaj.zone

before the 2020s the online femcel communities I interacted with were glorifying young women who killed men with knives, they had a whole aesthetic based on the look of various young women murders - it's not all gay cats and rainbows ๐Ÿ˜…

see: /r/femcelgrippysockjail

example of one of the most popular posts there:

here's another:

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ok. damn.

this one has such cozy vibes I'm really scared they'll make a rule like womenstuff. i asked them to ban me, don't want to accidentally comment on their stuff and invade their space. that's rude.

I'm cis, but I'll take tittacs to stay here

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Yeah, I really liked this one, so I tried looking up some of the femcel communities on reddit. That one made me a bit uncomfortable tbh. I don't belong there (man, not particularly fem), so that makes sense, but I also really hope that I never have to meet anyone with that kind of mindset.

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lemmy.dbzer0.com

You can be on dating apps and not get dates. Either because you're uggy, your standards are too high, or just the fact that dating apps are intentionally bad.

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yes, though willingness to leave your room to go on a date seems like an obvious precondition to getting on a dating app, I still think it's unlikely most femcels are on dating apps ๐Ÿ˜„

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LwLreply

Because of the community, and not knowing what hinge is, I assumed hinge must be a lesbian dating/hookup app and the meme is 2 bi amab people realize theyre so they see the other again on the other app lol

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