Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Well I started so early, 6 or 7 so can't be sure but as an adult -
I had to have a cervix surgery and the doctor said no O for 6 weeks to let it heal. My body did not agree, after about 3 weeks I started having dreams of sex and would cum in them. So I am going to say 3 weeks.
Few guys go more than a day or 2 before at least jerking off. It takes little time. Makes you feel good and refreshed. Having a bit of tension. A good jerking off shooting nice long streams of cum will definitely calm you down
Between masturbation doing nothing for me, and cascading failures in my social life, i’m going on almost a full year now.
Ready to die any day 😮💨 🤞
Are/were you on HRT?
Yeah but hrt has nothing to do with it, can cum just fine, masturbation just doesn’t get me off / turn me on.
I see, but you don't think that that could itself contribute to the lack of stimulation from it? Honestly just asking.
Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Yeah did you have a dip in horniness a few weeks/months after starting HRT and after that you had this issue
Nope. Libido was on the floor before, functionally asexual, post hrt my libido went through the roof. 7 years later it’s still sky high.
“This issue” is a dirth of positive social encounters, not my libido.
Well I started so early, 6 or 7 so can't be sure but as an adult -
I had to have a cervix surgery and the doctor said no O for 6 weeks to let it heal. My body did not agree, after about 3 weeks I started having dreams of sex and would cum in them. So I am going to say 3 weeks.
A whole week because I was on a bus from NYC back home to California and the first day of the journey, some tweaker destroyed the bathroom.
When I finally got to jork it, I came like a whole pint.
A couple of years, started when my depression peaked and continued until I finally was able to get my total dickectomy.
Fortunately, not nearly such a problem these days ;)
Probably about two months?
From starting to date my first GF until she took my virginity.
Clarification: do wet dreams count?
Idk, I suppose it would if you came, no?
Then; since I've been 12 no longer than 30-35 days.
96 days. Locktober rolled into NOvember into most of the way through December haha.
Few guys go more than a day or 2 before at least jerking off. It takes little time. Makes you feel good and refreshed. Having a bit of tension. A good jerking off shooting nice long streams of cum will definitely calm you down