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lemmy.world

That's way too long. If he can't cum in less than 10 minutes it's his problem

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Or, y'know, you do it in such a way that that gets extended. We've had sessions that lasted for hours.

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lemmynsfw.com

My ex had huge loads of exceptionally horrible tasting cum. He was the first guy I'd tried that with so I thought it a universal thing and watching porn where the lady swallows made me want to puke.

But nobody since has been so foul or so heavy.

So for me - fear of the finish makes it unpleasant unless I know the guy has mild taste and not so much.

Hygiene, obviously, and grooming, I don't like hair down there much.

I think that's about it. Vertical orientation is better because it's easier to breathe, if the guy lays flat it's less enjoyable but I wouldn't say unenjoyable.

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@RBWellsV23 @Mickey7 slight tangent, but I love licking a hairy pussy. Obviously the occupational risk of pubes at the back of my throat is a downside to this pursuit but I do love the textural sensation of her bush rubbing against my face and stubble and the feel of it on my tongue. I also find it aesthetically beautiful

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I like the look a lot, but don't like the feeling on me or others. My hair is quite coarse and was always itchy, didn't realize how much until I started removing it. But I agree on looks, the hair between legs is a lovely womanly or manly look.

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lemmynsfw.com

guys unable to verbalize what feels nice and what isn’t working. needing to guess with new dick zaps the joy out for me..

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I understand that some people may not be comfortable vocalizing during, especially with someone new, but it needs to be done. I'm a dude, so how am I going to(for lack of a better phrase) train a new girl up if I just sit there and give no direction?

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lemmy.world

You would definitely get feed back from me. "keep licking the underside of the head"

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awesome! I get that it should just be somewhat automated, but confirmation of being on the right track towards satisfying a partner is refreshing to hear and enhances (for me) the act of service.

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