femcelmemes·Femcel MemesbyTotallynotJessica I don't wanna love normal; I wanna be a freak with you <3View original on lemmy.blahaj.zone171Comments6
IIngeniousRocks (They/She) lemmy.dbzer0.com1Hide 1 replyMmm. Been there, its great til the hyperfixation wears off. By thrn you've been married 6 years and now splitting up is complicated.29
TotallynotJessica replylemmy.blahaj.zoneIt's all about growing comfortable with the person, something that traditional relationship models fail with as well.28
decipher_jeanne lemmy.blahaj.zone1Hide 1 replyThat sounds terrifying. I often fear losing a special interest too soon. and now feeling that fear with a person would be so much worse.12
TotallynotJessica replylemmy.blahaj.zoneI get that. Like I've said elsewhere, long-term relationships require comfortable familiarity. This familiarity may or may not occur regardless of what we do, and some relationships just aren't meant to work forever.4
Of the Air (cele/celes) lemmy.blahaj.zoneSounds in alignment with relationship anarchy, if not it just being that. 😁10
ZZenith lemm.eeOnly works until someone gets a new special interest and you become a boring old toy who won’t shut up or go away Love is permanent, special interests aren’t1
Mmm. Been there, its great til the hyperfixation wears off. By thrn you've been married 6 years and now splitting up is complicated.
It's all about growing comfortable with the person, something that traditional relationship models fail with as well.
That sounds terrifying. I often fear losing a special interest too soon. and now feeling that fear with a person would be so much worse.
I get that. Like I've said elsewhere, long-term relationships require comfortable familiarity. This familiarity may or may not occur regardless of what we do, and some relationships just aren't meant to work forever.
Sounds in alignment with relationship anarchy, if not it just being that. 😁
Only works until someone gets a new special interest and you become a boring old toy who won’t shut up or go away
Love is permanent, special interests aren’t