AMA - 23F - Escort/Prostitute
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Hiya lemmy! I'm a escort/prostitute from Thailand. Ask me anything!
I'm 5'1 and am usually a sub. Very rarely a dom.
I'll answer anything that won't reveal who exactly I am.
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Hiya lemmy! I'm a escort/prostitute from Thailand. Ask me anything!
I'm 5'1 and am usually a sub. Very rarely a dom.
I'll answer anything that won't reveal who exactly I am.
Do you ever actually enjoy your work?
I don't hate the sex. I like everything else.
Do you have a preference?
I knew a prostitute who preferred to sub but would dom if it came with some nice roleplay.
I prefer to sub as I'm a really mediocre dom. My height helps a lot.
How has your opinion on men and women changed?
No change on either. I was fairly well exposed to the "real" world since a young age.
Is this a long term career goal? If not, what is your long term career goal and how do you see this segue into that?
I'm fairly close to retirement. With how much I've earned I should be able to live without working as long as I maintain my wealth.
I hold a bachelor's degree in cybersecurity so if required I can always try my hand there.
I'm really late to this thread so I've probably missed the boat! I just wondered if you feel that your work experience makes you good at the social engineering aspects of cybersecurity?
I have close friends who are sex workers, and are happy, successful people. But I've known others who were badly harmed by it, it's great that you're working in a safe environment.
Do you do anything for your own pleasure outside of work and if so, what?
Nothing for sexual pleasure. I'm practically celibate outside work.
I'm into handheld gaming and tennis. Tho tennis I usually can play only when I'm out with a few clients. I'm playing tears of the kingdom and xenoblade 2 now.
Any idea why being sub is so popular with women?
Imo being shorter helps with being a sub so it could be that. There's also the society angle.
Are your clients mostly male, female, other?
Mostly male. I'd say female and other is barely 1-2% at most.
When meeting a client for the first time, what are some things you look for in terms of trusting them to treat you alright? Have there ever been situations where you had to turn down a client for some reason? What do you do if you need help?
The organization does a fairly decent background check first. So usually its all good people. Communication is the main thing. If they dislike speaking then it's a bad sign. (Before starting anything)
I flatly deny anyone with a micropenis. I'm not sure how to work with them so I don't want to accidentally hurt them, emotionally or physically. Otherwise I can deny anyone I have a bad feeling about. They'll be told I'm booked or unwell or something along those lines.
We have many guards and panic buttons hidden in a lot of places. If the client isn't trustworthy then they can't hire us to go anywhere, they'll have to use our approved hotels and rooms.
That makes me feel better that a support system exists and you have some autonomy 😌
Yes, it's very good now. I'm very lucky!
That makes me feel better that a support system exists and you have some autonomy 😌
What kind of pubic hair grooming style do you see with most of your clients?
Not really a style as much as it's just a basic trim.
Oh right. I meant like natural, trim, shaved. 😉
Do you have a preference? What about your colleagues? Is this something you talk about amongst yourselves?
Depends. A full shave is best for a BJ, any other hole natural or a decent length trim is best.
We don't really talk about this too much as it's the same opinion for all of us.
@Inside_Me_Probably how frequently do you orgasm when you're having sex with your clients?
Fake? Many times, based on the client. Real orgasm maybe once a day. With lesbians usually all real orgasms.
@Inside_Me_Probably it was only the real ones I was curious about!
How frequently do your clients love to give oral sex rather than simply receive?
Lesbians prefer to give and play with me more than receive. Guys much lesser. If it's 1 on 1 then maybe like 10%. Any other ratio and it's far lesser.
@Inside_Me_Probably what's your favourite sexual act, or does that vary dependent upon their client?
I don't really care about sex too much, I like the challenge that a BJ brings.
Well some clients are really good at sex. So with them it doesn't matter what we're doing.
DMs are open too.
Related to work- As a sub what services do you offer?
Related to life-- What are your typical meals and when do you usually eat?
A lot of things . I'm part of a fairly big service so it's not just me, a bigger organization. I can be hired for just a single BJ to spending weeks on a cruise. Really if you can imagine it and it's not really unhygienic, it's probably something we offer.
There really isn't any typical meal. My escort side takes me around the world so I usually eat out. So I don't really like cooking for myself. If i have to it's usually some sort of rolls or preprepared meals. I always keep a decent amount of electrolytes with me tho. My schedule changes as required so I eat whenever I can.
Weirdest thing ever happened to you?
Fave local dish ?
Many many things but most easy to explain is the gang bang with my teachers (many years after they were my teachers). They even requested wearing the uniform.
Gai tod
What is Gai Tod to you that separates it from Korean or other fried chicken?
I can pick it up in 5 mins on my way home. Usually for the others the wait is more.
If you take international customers, which country’s people have the weirdest experiences?
Most are international customers. Americans are the wierdest cuz they are the majority.
what was your reason for getting into this line of work?
Money. Stupid amounts of money if you're lucky and smart.
But if you had a comfortable income. And you were able to take care of everything. And even have a little left over,would you do it again?
I think you're asking if I could have a similar income with a different job. I would take the different job any day.
Thank you.
What has made you so successful in this business? Are you particularly good looking? Do you fit a certain niche?
What makes a great client?
I work a lot and do all the usual good practices with money. Plus I'm very lucky to start at a big and expensive organization. I also help them out in other areas (tech help, clean ups, shopping etc)
I'm not amazing to look at but easily far above average. Plus a modest boob job helps.
I don't fill a certain niche but I'm willing to do a lot beyond just sex. For example any gf/wife experience with me includes managing the clients houses, dealing with repairs and really a lot of non sex stuff. I help with sexual and non sexual frustrations.
A great client is a client that know what they want or is at least willing to talk and figure out what they want. The clearer they are the better it'll be for us both.
Thanks 🙏
Do you get to pick your own shifts? How much do you have to work?
We get to choose our clients so that's our shifts. Generally it is somewhere between 2 pm to 2am. (At least that's the time we try to keep it to)
We're expected to work at least 7 days a month but most do a little over 14. I'm active around 20.
Honestly, that sounds like a nice set up!
It really is :)
Are you working primarily in Thailand? And if so how is the general scene for sex workers there? Is it safe or no? I know in many countries there are a lot of challenges and even dangers for sex workers. But not sure how it is in Thailand.
It sounds like you feel safe in your workplace but I’m curious how much you know about others in the industry.
I work international. I'd say half in thailand and half outside.
I'm a bit disconnected from the real depths as I never have gone into the more "local" sex scene. I know just much as the public. The same dangers + worse government support.
I'm very safe. I'm intentionally staying as far from the rest of the industry as I can. Don't want to accidentally anger trafficers and gangs like them.
Thank you.
At what age did you start and how many years have you been in the business?
How did you come across the organization?
I started when I was 19, so four years now.
I was scouted by them.
What organization?
I'm assuming the one I work in.
What was your best experience at work?
What was your most fun experience at work?
No idea tbh
Got many but I can't speak about them without privacy issues.