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asklemmynsfw·Ask Lemmy NSFWbyClaireyFairy

Personally, what are the kinks you want your dream partner to be into?

If you had the chance to create ur dream partner, what kinks are must haves? What ones are u willing to teach ur partner? What kinks are things that are dealbreakers if they aren't into?

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I'm pretty lucky

My woman and I have compatible desires

She never thought she'd enjoy being fisted, but on her first try she fell in love with it!

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lazyneetreply
programming.dev

Consensual non-consent is a fairly common kink practice. None of my partners have been terribly rapey but maybe one day...

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Rape play. More of a common feminine desire that most men know and/or will admit. Broadly speaking, women like the man to be dominant, it's just a matter of degree.

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Dream kinks for my partner to have would be CNC, full time free use, somno, intox, primal and public play. Maybe ddlg but I could live without it.

I’m flexible in my desires and can be satisfied with less extreme kinks so dealbreakers are few and far between for me, but I lose interest in sex fast if they aren’t excited to / regularly dom me

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Just open to trying anything once. Lots of stuff i haven't tried so don't know if I'm into it or not. I do know i like eating out both front an back, and occasionally i like watersports (receiving) but otherwise I'd have to try and a partner down to do anything at least once would be neat

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When a guy is rough or pushy in bed and obviously getting turned on by it, or even turned on by its effect on me. But really if someone hits me and it makes him hard it's ridiculously effective.

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Kink of mutual interest to name a few: D/SM (not into the B side of things), ANR for sure! Free use , Somno,etc

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I want my dream partner to literally pin me to the bed and use me, bonus if they just forcefully eat my cum.

I'm uh a voraphile, so that explains it.

Obviously being really into smells, liking to lick and tease is a big plus.

Of course, I empathically can do the same things, enjoying the other person getting off that.

Just being cuddly is good too.

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lemmynsfw.com

Deal-breakers would be: Pegging, whipping, spanking, chastity.

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dnickreply
sh.itjust.works

Wow, those are deal breakers if they're not into them?

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sasoni75reply
lemmynsfw.com

Those deal-breakers are if they're into it. Did I got the question wrong?

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dnickreply
sh.itjust.works

Seems like it. It was worded a little unusual so not terribly surprising, but technically you said it's a deal breaker if they're not into x, y and z. :)

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