Spyke
aussie.zone

Partner officially diagnosed with ADHD, and a treatment plan now in place. I'm so proud of him!

We got back to Brunswick, had a couple of Doppel Ename from Mokum, and then got some beer from Blackhearts and Sparrows. It's been a lovely birthday.

Thank you all so much for your birthday wishes and good vibes!! I don't know where I would be without you all! ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

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Taleyareply
aussie.zone

Aweeesooomee.

From a spousal perspective: you know how sometimes you feel like you're dealing with a toddler and want to stuff them in the toilet? Meds will help drop that shit riiiight down

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Homeopathic that shit, put it in a litre of water, then put 10ml into another litre of water then take a few drops on sugar pills. Back yard dexies here ya go.

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Taleyareply
aussie.zone

You ask a cancer patient for some spare fentanyl? Don't dude that dude, c'mon.

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Ooh belated happy birthday and congrats on the diagnosis for the spud adjacent human.

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aussie.zone

Edit: thank you for the birthday wishes! Sending you all good vibes! ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

I've been falling asleep to hour+ long videos on space, by Astrum Extra, so I don't know why I had a nightmare about

::: spoiler tw blood Living alone and finding blood everywhere in my house, running to the neighbours for help, then waking up to find blood everywhere in my house, running to the neighbours for help, then waking up to find blood everywhere in my house, then running to the neighbours for help... And so on. It was a good 15-20 loops before I woke up at 3am.

::: The cat came and cuddled me so I fell back asleep and was fine. I'm not upset, just tripped out lol.

Second ADHD assessment appointment for my partner today, so another trip across the city. Gonna treat myself with a cafe coffee, because it's my birthday ๐Ÿ˜‚

My beautiful friend came over yesterday, and made a delicious soup, healing for the mind, body, and soul. I feel so happy to have spent the day with them. They got to meet Mickey, we took a walk, it was great! They gave me their guitar, so I've been practicing last night - gonna practice more this afternoon when I return. I do wish I had slightly longer, thinner fingers so I stop flattening the other strings when practicing chords, but I'm sure I'll get the hang of it with practice.

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Happy birthday!! Go treat yourself and have a wonderful day!

๐ŸŽ‚

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aussie.zone

Full moon this weekend. Plus hotter than expected weather. Expect weird shit to go down. Not liking the vibe rn. I will be avoiding crowds this weekend.

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aussie.zone

Just a feeling in my bones. Don't get these often but I've learned to listen. Stay safe everyone.

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Cool. I usually am when I take the Minipeelers out though. I tend to go out earlier in the day on weekends, which they sometimes complain about, but you avoid a lot of afternoon crowds and evening shenanigans.

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melbaboutownreply
aussie.zone

::: spoiler Gonna be a lot of bungholes out there


:::

::: spoiler Nope


:::

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melbaboutownreply
aussie.zone

Yeah burrowing owls. I wish I was cute and fluffy and could hide in a hole in the groundโ€ฆ

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aussie.zone

Gonna have a few celebritory drinks today/ tonight because of the perfect weather, the few birthdays this week on here and the man finishes up work today for a 3 week holiday. I am match ready.

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aussie.zone

It took me nearly a month after getting my psych to fill out uni support forms (which she did within 24 hours of asking) to actually submit them to the uni out of paralysis/shame/anxiety/whatever - I did it this morning and then got a response from the subject coordinator eerily quickly... was out doing fieldwork and told myself I wouldn't read it till I got home because I was fully expecting a "no".

Turns out I got 10 days extension no questions asked. Fucking A. Sat with so much anxiety and avoidance for nothing.

Gonna celebrate by treating myself to an afternoon and evening of yet more PHM. Good good good. Thank!

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aussie.zone

Thanks for the birthday wishes yesterday everyone. It feels like I got a bigger response here from people I haven't met in person compared to what I ever got from people I know on Facebook

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Birthdays are important, regardless of how we individually celebrate! I hope you had a great day!!! ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

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It's a happy day and to echo Spud an important day where we celebrate life. I hope your day was a good happy day. ๐Ÿ˜˜

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aussie.zone

I have just submitted my first rental application, which was slightly terrifying. It is a lot more involved than the last time I was looking for a private rental (over 20 years ago!)

Hopefully they haven't just rented it to someone else, the landlord falls in love with Mr Woof and Miss Meow when they see the pictures, the property will be just as I imagine it in real life and I won't have to look at any others. Unlikely, but I can hope!

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aussie.zone

Only 2 3 wake ups so far. Not bad.

That reminds me. There's several Simon's at work. I'm very unaccustomed to having the same name as other people.

Ive only ever met 1 other person with my real name.

Feels odd to call someone else by my name.

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Seagoon_reply
aussie.zone

3 wakes, 3 recovering from migraine wakes because i have to pee

name, i don't meet many people with my first name and have met none with my last

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dumblederpreply
piefed.social

I dropped my weird religious name and am left with a John Smith grade common white guy name.

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dumblederpreply
aussie.zone

They're all pretty normal names as far as names go. Wrong religion too.

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Ooh okay. I always thought that biblical names we're especially weird.

Not familiar with names from other religions that much.

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aussie.zone

Almost sounds blissful. I'm the only person in Australia with my first name + last name combo. If you meet another person in Australia with my last name, I am 100% related to them ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Oh I bet I had a more generic white guy name. I think my name was the most common boys name the year I was born. Couple that with one of the top 5 English surnames and every ID check I ever did failed cause it had to go through an extensive review cause no one believed that was my real name.

Got a better last name now I'm married though.

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CEOofmyhouse56reply
aussie.zone

I know some arabs that named their twin boys Jesus and Moses (in arabic) and then there's little brother Adam.

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The first three people I met with name, we're all in my grade 8 class. Thankfully our surnames had different initials.

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There have always been a bunch of Thomas's around for me. There's one guy at work also called thomas with the same initials as me, so that could get very confusing in the project management software

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aussie.zone

Aaaand Trump goes back on the tariffs, and nobody is surprised because the country is run by toddlers basically. Stock markets are back up. Wonder which of his friends made a pretty penny by buying during the low and selling for an overnight 5-9% profit

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MeanElevatorreply
aussie.zone

All his cronies would have gotten a nice payday.

But it's all legal though!!!

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it is if you gut the SEC and stack the supreme court so there is no enforcement.

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Itโ€™s exhausting to be honest, itโ€™s generating so much news and tension over several industries leaving them with a bleak future ahead.

Been seeing talk of insider trading. Think thatโ€™s got any truth to it?

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5-9% profit

I sold at the bottom and bought cheese kranskys :(

Still winning though.

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tombruzzoreply
aussie.zone

I'm surprised they even happened. I thought they'd be the sorry of things he talks about forever and never actually does. But I guess this is like the Muslim ban; do it, revoke it, blame other people, and talk about it without ever implementing it again

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Almost feels like he did it purely to be able to boast to the American public that he (allegedly) had world leaders kissing his ass at a recent dinner due to these tariffs.

In other words - it's all just a fucking show leading up to an ever more disgusting version of politics from which there feels like there is no going back...

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SituationCakereply
aussie.zone

Iโ€™m waiting for the announcement of 1 millionth percent tariff on China, and for MAGA voters to keep insisting Trump knows exactly what heโ€™s doing and America is now great again. I want to laugh, but am so sad for the Americans who didnโ€™t want this. Another day in the American clown show.

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there was a notice on my payment page from aliexpress about tariffs.

Chinese people expect many Americans to direct their anger at them and they are right, they just don't understand that trump lied and lied and lied

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Got a new phone and now I've been locked out of my banking app in trying to set it up ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ Will have to sort it out tomorrow. I'm kind of annoyed.

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aussie.zone

gecko frens living on the front porch ๐ŸฆŽ๐Ÿฅฐ

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Love these little dudes even though it's a bit less nice when they're inside the house and leave their poo around (but still so helpful otherwise)

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SituationCakereply
aussie.zone

They are so cute. Itโ€™s so nice to have wildlife around! Is it possible he lost part of his tail? The ones Iโ€™ve seen have a tail that narrow to a thinner point. Unless this is a different species. Itโ€™s amazing how tiny some of them are.

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i do think this gecko has lost a bit of his tail, it's too stubby , a lot of predatory birds around here so that's probably how he lost it

it was such a lovely surprise to see them both ๐Ÿ™‚

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aussie.zone

Just saw first comedy show if the season. So so good. Saw: He Huang (absolute best of the night), Nazeem Hussein, Dave Hughes, and an Australian/African girl who's name I sadly forgot who was second best for me - has her own show and is going to be on taskmaster this season. It was a work social club thing and I almost bailed but I'm so glad it didn't. Buzzing ๐Ÿ˜Š

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aussie.zone

I have van. Now I'm waiting for an assessment of whether the reversing camera can be installed without a new head unit ๐Ÿคž

It is nice sitting up high and being able to see further, but it will take a while to get used to primarily using the side mirrors. I have so far managed to avoid turning on the windscreen wipers instead of the blinkers.

Edit: this is taking much longer than anticipated.

2nd Edit: I will need a new head unit. The good news is they can do it tomorrow, so will be able to back more confidently very soon. I did manage to back into my carport without too much trouble when I got home, although the sensors' beeping adds a new feeling of drama to the process.

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if your existing headunit doesnt have carplay/android auto just replace the headunit anyway. its a game changer!

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just_kittenreply
aussie.zone

Seconding getting the head unit upgraded to one that has carplay/android auto (if it doesn't already) - it makes SO much difference. Got it done on my car and while it was a strain on the wallet in one hit, it has paid off in scads from all the times it has made navigation etc so much better (and safer) than a mounted phone.

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It will be having android auto - it has some connection already, but it might just be to play music. I have a TomTom gps unit that I actually really like for navigation, both because it keeps the maps downloaded and doesn't need internet connection and because the dashboard or windscreen mount position is better to look at than in the centre console.

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MHLoppy
fedia.io

Life alternates between the ๐Ÿซ  emoji and the ๐Ÿ˜ค emoji

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but it's good to have the shots ๐Ÿ™‚ hope you feel better real soon

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Covid was free, flu was $20. Just sorta mentioned it at the doctors and they had it all ready to go.

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Had some absolutely funky dreams last night. Vivid, memorable and absolutely bonkers.

Last time I drink sugar free lemonade before bed time.

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Power is out, right before I could make breakfast.

Hopefully itโ€™ll come back sooner rather than later Iโ€™m all prepared for it!

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Angle grinding done. Not touching that thing for a while. Fiesty little fucker.

Pretty sparks though.

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aussie.zone

On the reptile train today aswell.

Ol' boy caught this (in the wild) on his trip to N. vic last w/e.

I've never seen one in person.

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aussie.zone

anyone else got that "First hot day of spring" kind of high thanks to the weather?

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CEOofmyhouse56reply
aussie.zone

Nah. It's more "last bit of summer" "what big items can I wash?" before hibernation starts for me.

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Feels like summer, looks distinctly autumn through with the trees changing colours. It's weird but I don't hate not being cold.

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A bit, but looking at the forecast, bloody hell it just looks like summer redux - 28-31 from Sunday through to Wednesday?! Throw some cool days in there mang... this isn't the autumn I signed up for ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Duenan
aussie.zone

Thank heavens for portable power packs.

Getting through the day with them.

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Line maintenance apparently.

Been off since about 8:30am.

Loaded some movies on an iPad and have podcasts downloaded on my phone for some background noise.

Just about to go play on my Switch to pass the time.

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Went to the gym at lunchtime today. It's 2 doors down, then got some sushi as a treat.

I usually just wander around aimlessly on lunch breaks so I'm glad I'm getting my workout without having to wake up at 5am or get home late.

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aussie.zone

Anyone looking for ideas for carpet?

::: spoiler here's an idea for you! :::

Just think, someone had to make that carpet, someone else had to decide to stock it to sell, and someone else had to buy it for this to happen. So many people you have to wonder "what were they thinking?!"

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Seagoon_reply
aussie.zone

how did you find MILs 70s carpet? She had lovely matching shantung cushions and curtains.

looked like a cinema or hotel

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Seagoon_reply
aussie.zone

akshully , I do very plain walls and rugs and stuff , that's so I can cover the walls with art prints, with reliefs and the shelves with object .

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That actually sounds very nice, especially as I know you collect seashells and things. Before this place, my houses all had an antique store jungle bazaar vibe. Since I had the kids and started living here it's been no indoor plants and nothing quirky and interesting, just a very practical and boring "doesn't matter if it gets dirty/found on someone's nature strip" vibe. With the exception of the kids art and photos of course.

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PeelerSheilareply
aussie.zone

I have to admit I kinda like it. Then again, I grew up in a brown Berber and fake walnut veneer paradise so anything oddly colourful appeals to me.

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Having some colour is definitely good. Especially atfer looking too long at the modern grey look everything is done in these days. But there can be too much of a good thing.

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CEOofmyhouse56reply
aussie.zone

I've got chicken, beef and vegetable. And I'll throw in some vegan stock cubes completely free.

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Tofu
aussie.zone

Beep Beep ๐Ÿšš
๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

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Tofu
aussie.zone

I just watched Flow ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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tombruzzoreply
aussie.zone

It's a much more intense movie than it seems. Great film though

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Suddenly have an absolutely raging craving for prawns. Nice juicy prawn heads drowning in flavour... maybe a nice prawn curry or tacos... that'll be tomorrow's treat.

Meanwhile it's back to having the fan on full blast to try and get to sleep. Too hot in here!

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calhoon2005reply
aussie.zone

Huh... different park, but the ones at mine were eating these....

::: spoiler spoiler :::

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Thinking.

There are so many people I have a lot in common with and could get along with really well - if they would treat me with respect.

Theyโ€™re always so shocked and angry when you set a boundary or leave, too. Likeโ€ฆ you expect me to just take that?

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aussie.zone

::: spoiler Why can't we buy this style of non-permanent pet door in Australia? :::

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aussie.zone

Akshully, Bunnings has inserts with dog doors that can be put in floor to ceiling glass doors. Basically a long thin strip with a dog door at the bottom. The one in the picture looks pretty amazing though.

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They do, I have one I use at my parent's place. But if you don't have a sliding door they are not much use.

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aussie.zone

When this under 16 ban comes in Iโ€™m going to lose all the collected art resources I carefully organised and all my YouTube playlistsโ€ฆ

VPNs get you banned or shadowbanned but kids under 16 wonโ€™t care. They could just keep churning through a bunch of new accounts, the disposability encouraging them to do whatever they want.

But for me when Iโ€™m unwell and canโ€™t do much else I spend a lot of time collecting and organising reference photos, art tutorials, and posts with links to free art books. Thereโ€™s a few years worth that will be near impossible to back up.

And I donโ€™t know what sites will be affected which makes it hard to even try to start migrating.

::: spoiler spoiler (โ€˜Download accountโ€™ options never seem to work - I always end up having to go back and do it manually.)

Even if I buy a dedicated external drive then screenshot and paste links it will be hard to preserve sources or keep images and related information together. Itโ€™s a mammoth task to do manually and the old fashioned way. Archiving is literally a job. And you canโ€™t go back to look at them without a login.

For the YouTube playlists maybe I can screenshot to be able to find some difficult to search stuff later, or paste the titles into a mega document, but oh man. Not a good solution. :::

It will also cut me off from a lot of other artists.

This crap isnโ€™t going to do anything but punish disabled people who spend a lot of time online and people who care about privacy.

But thatโ€™s the Australian governmentโ€™s way. Make grand promises (usually involving โ€œprotecting the childrenโ€) and then do something that doesnโ€™t work - and has unintended consequences.

I have much more to say about that but Iโ€™m tired -_-

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I could but at the moment it might be a bit of a steep learning curve for me. And if it gets picked up as changing where my traffic comes from Iโ€™ll probably be banned (so instead of inaccessible everything would just be gone)

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Got a bit of a headcold going on, so off work today. Went for a slow stroll out in the sunshine and oh my god it was glorious. Takes just a couple of grey days to really appreciate the sunshine.

Now just need the headcold to fuck right off.

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just_kittenreply
aussie.zone

You can do this Low! a 5% late penalty is not the end of the world. I guarantee you it will not even register on your mind 10, 20, 30 years later and when you're on your deathbed reflecting on the things that mattered to you.

And truth be told academic structures are not always conducive to those with attention disorders. I am only smashing it at my current job because the deadlines are all within 2 weeks, the projects are almost all short term, and there is support and advice available most of the time. I don't think I will do any further study for quite a long time after I finish this cursed subject and degree.

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I once heard a saying - โ€˜Cโ€™s get degreesโ€™

Not sure how true it is but just get what credit you can for getting it done

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ok guys, it's bed time

good night, sweet dreams ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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