Pre-transition me went out with another crossdressing guy I met on an app (which wasn't exclusively a gay app) because we had similar experience in free software stuff, so it seemed like there was a lot in common. We walked around and talked for a couple hours, and he told me that he thought he might be interested in guys, but after seeing me he wasn't. I'm not bad-looking either, but at the time it was low-key devastating.
It's fine. I know I'm not unattractive, I just don't seem to be as attractive to guys as I'd like to be since I still look like a man. I appreciate these gay questions. I wish more people asked them.
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Wait, what. How?
Pre-transition me went out with another crossdressing guy I met on an app (which wasn't exclusively a gay app) because we had similar experience in free software stuff, so it seemed like there was a lot in common. We walked around and talked for a couple hours, and he told me that he thought he might be interested in guys, but after seeing me he wasn't. I'm not bad-looking either, but at the time it was low-key devastating.
No wonder. I'm sorry I dugged that up.
It's fine. I know I'm not unattractive, I just don't seem to be as attractive to guys as I'd like to be since I still look like a man. I appreciate these gay questions. I wish more people asked them.