I've got a nonbinary friend who presents somewhat feminine, and they always say that anyone who finds them attractive is gay by default. So I guess what I'm saying is I'm not totally straight
They're using the (Greek-derived) scientific definition of "hetero" (i.e. different) vs "homo" (i.e. same). By those definitions, any cisgender + non-binary pairing would technically be heterosexual.
Yeah I define myself as heterosexual cos I'm not attracted to people of the same gender as me. I'm not non-binary so being attracted to/sleeping with an enby person is not gay, at least according to how I define my own sexuality.
I'm a gay guy so I'll answer this from that perspective: moreso men? I'm attracted to guys along with the occasional non-binary person or very butch lesbian (i.e. my attraction to them felt identical to how I'm attracted to men). Sometimes I'm attracted to a masc guy, sometimes it's a fem guy. Sometimes it's neither. I've been into every body type except bears (though including cubs).
Basically: if my social perception of you is that of a man despite your own gender identity, then I might be attracted to you. I apologize if my horniness assumes your gender
Not really, it's pretty key to the propagation of the species to find certain genitals and sexual traits attractive. Those that don't notice them or care about them are outliers in humanity.
Is their preference really any more arbitrary than the preferences sapiosexuals or demisexuals have? It sounds like they probably have other traits that may make someone more or less attractive, they just have a minimum requirement for a certain body form for them to begin having attraction. That isn’t so different when compared to a sapiosexual who requires a high intellect before they can begin being more or less attracted based on other traits.
TL;DR: All preferences are weird, no need to call anyone out on their specific ones :)
My ex really loved that song and thought it was so deep. She'd say shit like "I just love how he doesn't have a type you know? Like if your bad it doesn't matter" but I was just confused because a bad bitch is a type. And it wasn't her.
Whatever makes my dick hard is a woman.
Convince yourself you're "totally straight" while sucking another guy's cock with this one weird trick
Let me tell you about my straight exhusband and his totally not gay guy friend that he would give and get BJs from. It was 100% platonic.
Why does the gay bar have so many hot girls with rock hard abs and well manicured beards
New HRT just dropped
Same, though I'm pansexual so you can leave off those last three words
TIL that sucking dick is a woman
Women can have dicks to be sucked.
Oh I just meant that sucking dick makes my dick hard and, therefore, is a woman. QED (queer erotic demonstrandum)
I'm an "i don't care, looks female enough" kind of guy.
I'm not straight, or a guy, but yes
Love your username lol
I've got a nonbinary friend who presents somewhat feminine, and they always say that anyone who finds them attractive is gay by default. So I guess what I'm saying is I'm not totally straight
Wouldn't finding an nb person attractive be hetero attraction? Since they're of a different gender?
I guess it depends how you define it, i feel like most people define hetero as being exclusively attracted to people of the opposite sex than you
They're using the (Greek-derived) scientific definition of "hetero" (i.e. different) vs "homo" (i.e. same). By those definitions, any cisgender + non-binary pairing would technically be heterosexual.
Yeah I define myself as heterosexual cos I'm not attracted to people of the same gender as me. I'm not non-binary so being attracted to/sleeping with an enby person is not gay, at least according to how I define my own sexuality.
Both lmao
I'm a gay guy so I'll answer this from that perspective: moreso men? I'm attracted to guys along with the occasional non-binary person or very butch lesbian (i.e. my attraction to them felt identical to how I'm attracted to men). Sometimes I'm attracted to a masc guy, sometimes it's a fem guy. Sometimes it's neither. I've been into every body type except bears (though including cubs).
Basically: if my social perception of you is that of a man despite your own gender identity, then I might be attracted to you. I apologize if my horniness assumes your gender
I like boobs and pussy
That's the definition of "straight guy" right?
Boobs + Pussy = Bussy right?... Right??
Not if you're a woman. Or if the boobs/pussy belong to a dude
I always figured straight or gay is related to sex, not gender. So a pre-transition trans man or a post-transition trans woman would count
Would you date a trans guy
pre-transition? Sure
I don't like dicks though
And it would probably be difficult with me going "I love your boobs" and they're always like "I hate my boobs"
Buck angel?
Buck is too masculine on top for me to find them attractive.
That's so strange. You're just attracted to people's body parts?
Yeah It's called sexual attraction at least meet the bare minimum
That's how it works for the vast majority of people.
Not like personality doesn't play a role. But certain body part combinations are a requirement.
Pretty weird
Not really, it's pretty key to the propagation of the species to find certain genitals and sexual traits attractive. Those that don't notice them or care about them are outliers in humanity.
I'm asexual so this is very alien to me. I generally associate genitals with violence because of past trauma
Outliers in humanity? Fuck off
How do they do it on your planet?
I come from the planet of the ace, where nobody has sex and the masturbation doesn't matter
Is their preference really any more arbitrary than the preferences sapiosexuals or demisexuals have? It sounds like they probably have other traits that may make someone more or less attractive, they just have a minimum requirement for a certain body form for them to begin having attraction. That isn’t so different when compared to a sapiosexual who requires a high intellect before they can begin being more or less attracted based on other traits.
TL;DR: All preferences are weird, no need to call anyone out on their specific ones :)
Old reliable
Doesn't matter, I'm aiming for the bum.
… yes
Yes.
Why not both?
Both, and only both. Never just one or the other.
Romantically and sexually? Women. Aesthetically/interpersonally? Both.
Women, unquestionably.
Woman. I wouldn't go as far as to say manly, but definitely not femininity.
Both
Semi bisexual
Bi but it's a lie
If only I'd knew the answer to that.
Tits and a vag to shove my dick in. Christ this is cringe.
Bad bitches is the only thing that I like 🤷
My ex really loved that song and thought it was so deep. She'd say shit like "I just love how he doesn't have a type you know? Like if your bad it doesn't matter" but I was just confused because a bad bitch is a type. And it wasn't her.