I prefer that money be used for housing.
People are mad the games are cancelled but how much angrier would people be if he wasted 6-7 billion for 12 days of athletics.
I am properly in my 30’s now and still have no idea what I’m doing with my life!!!
OH! OH I know this one!
You're going to physio a LOT more and actually paying attention when they give you exercises instead of your 20s where you just stuck the paper to the fridge and didnt do anything with them.
I just wish I had taken up yoga a lot sooner - at least now when I throw my back out the recovery isn't nearly as long as it was when I was in my 20s and barely able to get off the ground because I never lifted with my legs.
Yeah I was in an accident as a kid I never totally recovered from. Like not horrific or anything, but just seemed to set things in motion. That and I'm an IT guy/gamer. A lot of sitting down.
There's something about this age where I think it's perfectly normal to think that...saying from experience. I'm six years removed from this very birthdate and still have no idea what I'm doing with my life but the current is taking me where it wants and I'm slowly but surely getting comfortable with that idea. I might snag a branch or two along the way and see if I can steer the course but it's all flowing downwards anyway. Happy birthday, though. And I hope you enjoyed that cake!
Happy birthday! I don't think anyone ever fully has any idea of what they're doing with their life. Cake for breaky is a pretty good starting point though 🎉
Lizzo was amazing again ❤️ I struggled with the fact that a lot of the people in my section just did not stand up! It's Lizzo, it's dance music, you gotta stand, dance, and enjoy...so I did. Lol. I did sit more for this one then Mondays concert though. Is this standard for concerts? Because for both Lorde and Harry, we stood the entire time.
I think it depends from artist to artist. If I had to generalise - the older the crowd, the more likely people in the seats are going to sit for the entire concert. Lorde and Harry would attract a younger crowd, Lizzo an older crowd. I don't understand how people can sit through a pop/dance/rock/upbeat music concert and so I'll typically get GA tickets.
True, it could definitely be that, noticed a lot of parents with children, both young children and adult children that perhaps would prefer to sit. Thankfully the stands are tiered so no one other than the people beside me are standing at my level behind me (and I'm shortish) so I don't think I obstructed too many peoples views or at least I hope not.
Sometimes ppl purchase seated tickets cos they can’t stand for a period of time (disability/ fatigue/ chronic health issues/ sore feets from working all day…). If you wanna do more than dance/ enjoy while seated, select GA tix?
That is true, I hadn't considered that side of things. I would've got GA but they sold out before I could. And I chose still have a seat because whilst I wanted to stand and dance during the concert, I didn't love the idea of being sandwiched between a bunch of people as I overheat easily and struggle to regulate my temperature. It was just interesting observing the differences in even just the seated areas of crowds. Some sections were all standing and others weren't.
Oh no. The Bad Feels (blood rushing to face, starting to feel congested like you're about to cry) started to happen and I've been left hanging after a conversation. Burying my face in the cat isn't helping. What do. I'd eat a pizza if I had any appetite. Maybe I'll shut off the world and get into a good book like I keep threatening to. My eyes are getting too tired for TV...
It has been a rather lovely day today. Six hours work this morning, plus a bit of online shopping for some new shoes. This afternoon I was actually able to get outside in the sunshine and do some planting and weeding. Mr Woof got three walks, so he's pretty happy, and Miss Meow is currently enjoying some lap time (purring like a little engine). Pork rissoles and tray baked vegetable are on the menu for dinner. Plus I don't have to work tomorrow so don't need to get up at any particular time in the morning. I am judging today a success. 🙂
Manifesting my tax return to come through tonight as my ADHD assessment money is officially coming out and I'll have no money until tomorrow night (pay night).
I lodged mine last night.. I'm gonna get a return which amounts to less than a weeks pay. Glad someone in this thread is getting something worth waiting for, but I hope you don't have to wait too long!
Phone interview scheduled for this morning, soon.
Might go for a walk later in the afternoon.
For now I'll stay seated drinking my coffee
Waiting for another job to tell me they like me
edit: @[email protected]@[email protected] - went well, in-person interview will be set up soon for the coming days, hopefully I'll be making bank soon ahahha
Bit over ordering Didi or Uber 20 minutes before work and they rock up so I'm late to work. So I'm finally contacting a driving instructor who is good for folks with adhd/anxiety so I can get my P's. I guess now I have to save up for a car.
It made all the difference to me. Was a long journey before I became confident behind the wheel but it was 100% worth it. Which part of Melbourne are you in, I might have a recommendation.
I changed my phone wallpaper, font and icon style last night and it feels like I got a new phone! That scratches that little itch I had. The hardware of my phone is still excellent so there's no need to get a new one.
::: spoiler image is of my phone's sexy first home screen
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Yeah I'm full Edge these days. Works well having the same browser ecosystem across all of my PCs and phone. I even have my default search engine set to Bing as a trial (to take full advantage of the Bing Chat AI feature) but that might be going back to Google soon. Bing isn't quite there yet, even though I do like the Bing Chat AI.
Bing is not fine. I use Edge for work, but the amount of times I search something forgetting it'll use bing, try and fail to find the result on the first page and have to switch to google is nuts. The ads are so much more in your face too!
I think this is a very important turning point in Australian politics. For the first time ever the good of the common people have been prioritised over business.
None of this crap about job creation we would get from the LNP. The facts are plain, games are a cost and the losers are the people.
And we can't justify it as being a PR exercise in the Cold War, we aren't in the Cold War anymore, it's turned into a hot war that we backing .
Great call, and it's annoying the media outlets are by-and-large trying to make it an even bigger deal than I feel it needs to be. I understand that a few sports stars are put out, and regionally speaking it hurts some areas in some respects - but we could be fucking celebrating the fact that a fiscally responsible decision was made, and one that should still provide benefits that are needed more (like housing) compared with the cheap Olympics ripoff the Comms games are.
I think for Andrews it's a "damned if you do damned if you don't" situation where the media are concerned. Honestly the media in this country by and large deserves a severe lashing; all reactions and sensationalism and little analysis, absolutely pathetic. I agree with the decision, and was a bit surprised we were going to host it to begin with.
Fuck. One last bit of paperwork from my old workplace and I'm finally free of it. I'm still undecided as to whether I'll take a bunch of further action against them or not. I have nothing to gain and being vindictive is not in my nature. Justice however is a different matter. I'll seek some psuedo legal advice from one of my best friends who practised law for a long time, he's also been a life coach, mentor and father figure and I've always taken his advice, as it's usually so good.
Walked nearly 10ks yesterday. The body is getting used to it slowly. This sprained wrist is only healing very slowly and may be getting worse again. I bought a better support for it but the new job and constant use of my hands outside it means it's going to be a long haul I think.
Working again today and who knows when for the rest of the week. I'll manage financially for the time being and with any luck won't have to touch my savings. Just going to have live frugally for a while, which is fine. I have almost everything I need, so stopping having a disposable income won't be a big deal. Just have to quit wearing make up and buying expensive skin care products, which is also fine. There's peer pressure from other trans women a lot I find to "pass" meaning people can't know you're trans. It's bullshit pure and simple as far as I'm concerned. I'm happy that for some people that's what they want for themselves, but I've never bought into gender stereotypes and I'm not about to be bullied into starting buying into them. It's also really important to be visible at the moment I think as well. I'm not winning friends by being direct about my response to this, but I'm done with trying to be a people pleaser.
Thanks for reading, journalling here is therapy and its good to be regular with it so I can look back over this time down the track and see what I was doing and feeling and such....
One aspect of the old workplace situation might bear some consideration. Making a complaint or whatever, is the effect such has on the person that treated you so badly. Not a personal effect, but on the formal record. This makes it more possible for future employees of that person to have some warning of what that person has done before and might do again. So it's harder for the nasty person to say "I'm not the nasty person, it was them over there". One could call this an act of charity rather than being vindictive. Legal advice sounds like a good starting point to me.
Pretty soon I'll have the final paperwork sorted, so I'll phone the lgbtqia+ legal service for advice as well. The nightclub industry is rife with illegal behaviour. The culture of sexual harassment is gross and I brought it up with them many times and their failure to do anything emboldened a staff member to harass and sexually assault me. It wasn't a particularly bad assault but I'll also likely report that to police as it was the crux of all the issues and thier reluctance to take it seriously was a terrible lack of due process. While that didn't happen at work, it happened immediately after in my car, when I was giving them a fucking lift home. Also most the bullshit happened after I came out as trans.
A duck! A ladder! A waterballoon! A certificate of achievement! A Team! A Bee, See! A sense that you've gone on holiday and left wet clothes in the washing machine at home! A single fettuccini noodle! A country song about a dog! A list of random nonsense! ( 🤞 ) A turtle!
Flour, baking powder, salt and some milk (plant or moo)...mix well until it's just sticky. I put in chopped veggies into the mix sometimes too. Make little balls and drop them into the soup a couple of minutes before serving.
Oh god... I remember reading something about this. I think the answer was "water". As in, if you're not sure what your body needs but it need something then drink some water. But that might be for headaches.
Fuck it. Default to whiskey. That'll fix what ails ya!
There’s nothing wrong with rewatching shows/movies if you really enjoy it. Just starting on a rewatch (lost count) of The Mist (2007)… and no I do not recommend the series that came out in 2017
Same with audiobooks for me. I always listen while drifting off to sleep. First run through is fun and interesting, then repeats are more soothing and I don't mind I'm missing bits, pay less attention, and fall asleep easier
See for me personally I can’t do audiobooks, wish I could but I can’t listen and do other stuff. Music is different as I know the lyrics so I can listen or sing and not pay attention. With audiobooks I need to listen to what’s been said, and if I’m paying attention to what’s said I may as well just read a physical book or e-book. Plus I find most audiobook speakers to be boring. And I know you can always rewind the audiobook if I miss bits but yeah I still stand behind physical or e book instead, which is what I’ve been doing
Yeh I get that. It is probably poor sleep hygiene for me, and def leads me to staying awake for too long sometimes, but I prefer to have something so I don't need to listen to my thoughts 😬
I got an Audible win today - found that I had a recurring subscription but I never have used it. Must have been some free trial with an Amazon purchase. It's been running for months and months - total of over $270! - and I could not find an Amazon account it's attached to.
So I called them today. They will not specify the Amazon account it belongs to because 'security', but they say they've stopped the payments and will refund the entire amount.
Small insignificant rant. I browse news.com.au. I'm not going to apologise. I want to know if anyone's died or if anything has been recalled. I don't bother about any of the other shit. Occasionally though something might catch my eye. Which brings me to my next rant.
Macca's. Now I love a cheese burger, filet-o-fish and nuggets like any other little piggy but when times are tough and all you have to offer is your shitty little sauces I have to ask "is that it?". How about bringing back your loose change menu? How about your 24 nuggets for $10? Stop with the crumb throwing. Show as a decent deal.
They may do it every now and then but not permanently. Unless you’re using the Maccas app (which I hear sometimes has nice deals? Idk I don’t use it, just heard from other people) Maccas isn’t cheap anymore. And I’m not talking inflation, it stopped being the quick cheap fast food option about 3-4 years ago? Maybe more 3? I only eat Maccas if I’m craving for something in particular like occasionally a Big Mac or filo o fish or apple pie. Heck have you seen how expensiv, if you like the taste of the cookies just get a packet of malt o milk at colesworth, they taste quite similar. They’re about the same price (cheaper on sale, so grab a few) they just won’t have the Maccas character etched on it.
It’s not great value for money, especially since the other day I got that tin of herring and slapped it between two pieces of bread and that was cheaper than buying a cheese burger.
That ton of herring alone had more meat in it than a maccas cheeseburger has which is really sad.
I do miss the loose change days where you could grab something for a dollar.
I recently ate a cheeseburger from maccas because it was a birthday freebie and it was pretty sad and small.
I just think that a billion dollar company should be giving us a little bit more than "try our new sauces". How about a good deal to go with those sauces you tight-arses?
Also to add to your rant I get stupid emails about getting 10 dollar savings from Woolworths…if I buy 170 dollars worth of groceries in one shot for pickup or direct to boot.
170 dollars?! Are they insane?
Edit: we still have Warner playing and we’re going in with no spinners. Hope we’ll be ok to handle the opposition.
Aw yeah potato salad
Deserves a proper ballad
Bacon in it, Bacon eats it
Sour cream and mayonnaise it
Some gherkins and some celery
Sprinkle on some parsley
With apple my Opa would make it
Lick the bowl, don't forget it
I have the same with my guy & I tested the water by just saying what I wanted to talk about as I figured I could more easily just say my peace rather than asking him to change. It has pretty much self-resolved as he listens and then engages and asks clarifying questions.
It’s kinda been nice to realise it’s okay to talk about myself without prompting. I can see it really assisting with open communication between us.
This is great advice, I've noticed with some people they don't think to ask, but there's nothing wrong with offering the information yourself. And as someone with adhd, try not to overthink it.
If It's worrying you enough to ask that here, it is definitely worth bringing up.
Before bringing anything up have a think about exactly what it is that is worrying you. Is it just that specific question of "how is your day" or are you feeling that he is not showing interest in what you are doing in your life in general? Also think a bit about how your communication is going in general and whether the issue is about him not asking, or maybe a mismatch in communication style - for example if you tend to lead with a lot of questions straight away but he tends to have more space in a conversation before he initiates things, then the answer would be not just for him to ask more, but for you to also allow a bit more space for him to do so.
With a clearer idea of what the issue is it makes it easier to raise it in a problem-solving rather than accusatory manner. So using my previous example, instead of saying "why don't you ever ask how my day is going" you can ask something like "I feel like I ask about your day more than you ask me. Do I need to give you more space to ask things, or is there something else?". That is much less likely to get a defensive reaction, and more likely to lead to a productive discussion that can help improve things.
So my boss was interviewing people the other day for the other role at our job. And so we had a new person come in today and she's nice, found out she lives near me so she offered to give me a ride to and from work which is great.
But I found out that my boss had to let her go (after like 2 1/2 hours of work). I think it's just because she wasn't understanding quickly what my boss was explaining. Like I don't know the exact ins and outs but yeah. Apparently I set the bar high.
Still cooked dinner even though I got home late from work and felt super tired. A lazier me would have just gotten take out. Bolognese with garlic bread hit the spot. I’m now too full to clean the kitchen.
In my opinion: long strip sliced red and yellow capsicum simmered with onion, garlic, pepper, smidge of stock. The caps may or may not be charred & peeled first. An over ripe tomato optional. Use as pasta sauce right now, or jar as an oil type pickle.
With the whole Hollywood strike going on it got me thinking - there is SO much content that if something weird were to happen whereby no more movies or TV shows were to ever be made, I'd be fine with the sheer amount of content that has been generated up to this day. Like, if some weird, I don't know, space temporal displacement happened whereby Hollywood (or hell, anyone - BBC, Australian TV, etc.) were able to make anything else then there is enough content available for a lifetime regardless.
Obviously in saying that it would mean an entire industry would be out of work permanently... so this hypothetical situation has massive economic pressures as well. But still... this strike could go on for years and I'd still be playing catch up.
The sad truth is there isnt much interesting coming out these days either. The current season of the Witcher is almost unwatchable.
Secret Invasion is "Meh" at best. Silo was disappointing.
I couldn't tell you the last thing we loved, beyond probably Picard? But even that had a horrible first 2 seasons. Grand Tour Eurocrash was ok.
I am excited about Thank God You're Here though.
I hate how much Disney have churned out their TV shows. They fell into the same trap that Netflix did with the Defenders - it started out so promising only to become a bloated, overdrawn mess.
I really don't care about investing more time on the Witcher since Henry Cavill left. If he felt it was worth ditching the show because the writers were getting it wrong, then why the fuck would I bother with it either?
Meanwhile there's shows I haven't see in forever that I'd love to re-watch. Sopranos, Breaking Bad (and I haven't seen Better Call Saul yet), Daredevil and Jessica Jones... there's too many to list actually.
And yes - I'm with you on that as well about TGYH. Aussie TV can be so frustrating sometimes since they'll be on a winner only to can it for no real good reason. Chanel 7 are dickheads for buying it only to can it after what, two seasons?
Bloated is the right word for it. Can anyone remember who the bad guy was in Ms Marvel? Can you tell me what happened in She Hulk beyond the Wong cameo? Cause I sure as shit cant. Kenobi SUCKED.
GNW was amazing! Have You Neen Paying Attention can be ok, but the dumping on Tom thing is getting a little old. And at its worst its super disrespectful to its guests. Its all fun if everyone's in on the joke, but there's such a thing as taking it to far.
I did enjoy the new episodes of Spicks and Specks.
I didnt even know Jack Ryan had a season 3. Thats queued up on.... things.
For the Witcher do you want me to recap the season for you? I'm only 3 eps in but so far its a bunch of sour looks and characters shouting "Ciri!" "Geralt!" Yen!" and the occasional quip for Jask.
There you go, now you've missed nothing!
S3 was my favourite one. Really good cat and mouse setup with betrayals all over the place.
S4 is more action than anything only six eps. Probably could have used 2 or 3 more to flesh out the story, cause the entire thing is massively rushed. Still worth a watch.
We're re-watching Supernatural. Had watched the original seasons 1-5 years ago and shat on the idea of the show continuing after the show runner was like "nope, my plan was always 5 seasons so I won't be staying on", only to turn around after the show's continued success and go "actually this is really cool I want back in." So yeah, 15 seasons at about 2-3 episodes a week is going to take us quite a while. And that's just one show. I saw the thread on Monday where you were talking about that show Justified and I was like "shit, that sounds like a cool show" so that's now on the list. Good thing that list is digital as I'd have to fell a whole forest for the parchment required to write the list out.
Took me a bit to get into Justified honestly. First season is essentially 'case of the week' with a bit of an overarching plot and recurring characters. After that it gets really good.
I still have seen 0 episodes of Supernatural. Might give it a crack one day. Always seemed like a kiddie X-Files for me and not very interesting.
Good to know about Justified - I don't mind too much the idea of a "case of the week" so long as it's not its staple. I love shows that evolve in that way, rewarding longer time viewers with a payoff for the foundation/structure of the earlier part of the narrative.
Supernatural is more akin to Buffy and Angel, I think - at least the first three or so seasons Overarching bad-guy with an episodic baddie of the week kind of thing. But the further you go the more you realise the key moments interwind towards something much more. The show runner, Eric Kripke, wrote a plan for how the who story arch of the first five seasons would play out and it's easy to appreciate that kind of forward planning - even if the third (?) season was hit with the last writers' strike.
That said, yeah, it's definitely not as serious as X-Files. It has a lighter tone for the most part, with some episodes which are put together really well from a comedic perspective.
Sadly I'm on rewatches because I watch way too much content and have gobbled up just about every half decent show/movie in each genre I like. In good news.. new Justified today woo!
Rewatches are also great - I want to go back and watch things like Legion, as that's definitely a show that I feel would give a huge amount of benefit the second-time around. I'm also on my third run of Shorsey which I watch when doing cardio, and that's only after running through Letterkenny a secondtime.
I saw you mention Justified the other day and hadn't heard of it, but I'm going to start that soon. Looks like a really cool show, and I love the idea of a neo-western, too.
I just did a Legion rewatch a couple of months ago. That show was art. I honestly pity those who watched it on a low-quality screen or with low-quality non-surround audio, especially the audio. Those people didn't get the entire audio-visual experience. It's like when people downloaded rips of Avatar and hated it when it came out rather than going to watch it in 3D at a cinema. I will only watch Legion using my Sony WH1000XM3s for that surround and rich sound, because I don't have a full surround sound system on my PC or TV. Hearing every maddening whisper, music cue, tone. So good.
God, wasn't it! For me it's one of the few shows where you can examine a LOT of it on so many different levels. The art and direction, the choice of style which in of itself is intentionally timeless. The acting was on point. The sheer chaos of some moments... I actually used it for some of my masters' thesis on exploring the use of the unreliable narrator in speculative fiction.
Justified is brilliant, I just finished a binge watch of the original series. Justified: City Primeval starts soon (today I think actually).
Really looking forward to the new series, set in Detroit this time. Raylan is back but I think the rest are new characters.
Ages ago I impulse-purchased the best earbuds you can pretty much get (WF-1000XM4) thinking I could force myself to enjoy them considering so many people like that format of headphone. I've been an over-ear enjoyer for many years and always felt like buds would fall out of my apparently little ear holes. They've been sitting in a drawer pretty much since I bought them but I'm once again trying to use them now that I bought some aftermarket tips which apparently help. Been listening to some folk music while doing the dishes over lunch and it has actually been alright! I still keep fiddling with one of them thinking it feels like it might fall out. Not sure how many others have this weirdness with inner-ear buds.
It is nice not having the weight/heat of the over-ears. I might take these on holiday and see if I can finally get some use out of them.
Meanwhile; kitchen is clean, mixed some chamomile & grapefruit oils into my diffuser and I have a cold drink. I'm ready for this afternoons meetings.
I've never been able to use ear buds. I've tried multiple types, including ones with multiple tips, and none of them work - they are either uncomfortable or fall out. I've just accepted they are not for me and now use over ear ones instead.
I have the XM3s in-ear and I love them. That something so small can be so effective at noise-cancelling is amazing. They came with various sizes of tips and it was trial and error to find the pair that fitted and stayed in place.
Lots and of people have the problem. It’s a problem with the product, not you. One size fits all doesn't really work, it excludes body shape differences between genders and ethnicities. Was probably tested to fit on an average Caucasian male ear. Aftermarket tips should hopefully help. Would be nice if different sizes came as standard option though.
Starting to feel a little more human today, but aside from doing some washing, am forcing myself to continue resting in case I undo all of the good work my resting is doing. Just hoping for some sunshine so I can lie in it for a bit.
Ew just found out my best friend listens to Joe Rogan's motivational stuff. She's a messy person who falls pray to bullshit quite often so I can only imagine she's hanging on every toxic unhelpful word he says.
I listen to some of these podcasts just to hear what the fuss is about, to learn about what my fellow humans are doing and why and ... I am amazed such intelligent people, like Rogan and Peterson, can believe such a lot of shite when the facts are so easy to find. It must take some real deep distrust of government to discard what is plain in front of your eyes.
I will say this positive thing about those popular broadcasters, they are kind and caring and insightful regarding the pressures endured by working class men and they don't call them deplorable. This is why they are popular.
I don't know that he is so much exploiting as the disenfranchised have latched onto him.
A really really really important thing to remember, and I cannot emphasise this enough, is that no one is all wrong or all right. Everyone is going to share some beliefs and disbeliefs with other people.
Unfortunately there has been a recent tendency ( note my use of the word tendency that Marx himself loved to use ) toward puritanical rejection of a whole person when there is disagreement on one issue. A tendency of rejection that has been amplified by the Russians using social media to create division in the Western world ( there is proof of this ) .
So you have people who feel rejected listen to Rogan and Peterson and they agree with some of what they say. Then they accept all of what they say through loyalty and group identity. Another thing is you overestimate how intelligent and reasonable people are. Average people just don't have the skills to refute them, ( I admit I struggle refuting Peterson and I'm pretty good at this ) he is amazingly intelligent with an IQ of at least 150.
Anyway, the attachment to the broadcasters is emotional, the disenfranchised feel they have a champion in these people, they feel heard.
I suggest if we want to limit the power of demagogues we start listening to people, that we stop telling them what they should believe and how they should live. Give them an ear.
I like you seagoon. I think you're clever.
In a similar way, I guess, I find it pretty ridiculous that people are quick to overlook that there may be some benefit to some of what JP is saying. There is, for some.
In the same way that people latch on to some of the negatives because they agree with the positives and want to feel part of something -- I feel the inverse is true, perhaps more true, that people immediately disregard the entirety of someone's veiws or works because there are a few bits that are an affront to them (hello cancel culture, and fuck ya).
I heard Peterson rip a well known anti-trans and racist writer a new one. He saw right through her down to the deepest lie and told her to her face her position was based in her personal white supremacist arrogance . She paused for a short moment then continued.
Nothing will stop these haters, nothing. Because it is irrational. Her followers are also irrational and do not care about refutation. His interview was very instructive on what these people are like because it was real and in real time.
I am not so naïve to think that an interviewer necessarily agrees with what the interviewee says . I also think an interviewer doesn't have to label or spell out to the audience what they should think.
Should we avoid listening to things that are difficult? Of course not. If we want to change the world we have to learn how to do it.
they are kind and caring and insightful regarding the pressures endured by working class men
Joe's net worth is $120m and Jordan $8m. Not really sure that they care about the working class, other than to elicit Patreon donations from them.
You're right tho, they are intelligent people, they have both worked out that there is a cohort of disenfranchised young men (always has been) that, if communicated to in a certain way, can be used to build their audience. Bigger audience = more ad revenue, books and speaking tours.
So working class men are being told by these millionaires that traditional masculinity is in decline, that women have too much power these days, and minority interests threaten their very existence. LGBTQ, BLM, Equal Rights are all out to get the traditional 'man'. It's nonsense. These movements have been around for decades in one form or another, we just live in a time when some people can amplify and monetise the myth.
So the amount of money a person has determines the veracity of their words? It's irrelevant.
But people do tend to believe rich and educated people even when they are talking about issues in which they have no expertise. It's crazy.
I think it's a social status/work thing, people, especially men, tend to identify with their job or profession and when their is high unemployment like in the Rust Belt, they have crises.
maybe if society recognised men as more than their job they wouldn't feel so bad .
Frustration taken out on yard, we now have a compost bin. w00t w00t, the worms shall feast!
(its twin is still sitting on concrete as a spillover 'cos our green bin is gonna be running hot for a while...really feeling the pain of moving to a council that hasn't done weekly green waste pickup yet)
A bit of a chilly start to the day. 3.4 degrees outside, but at last it is not wet or windy, so with a jacket on the dog walk wasn't too painful. Looking forward to some sun later. 🌞
I dunno, I have an easier time following star trek. I think this just didnt do a good enough job of world building. The humor felt out of place against the serious tones. It needed to pick a lane and stick with it I reckon.
If you want to complain about it 'losing the comedic edge' that happened almost out of the gate. Literally, the first couple of eps were sleepers to get past fox execs.
Drives me nuts when people go 'it stopped being funny and got political' what exactly about the third ep was funny and non-political?
(Yes, it did have funny moments. But it's not a comedy. It's just very very human)
I always wondered if your username was an Orville reference!
I've started season 3. Only two episodes in.
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I was told the third season is darker and the first ep of season 3 certainly fits that description.
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Poor boyo has a major Sad. The cat he left with the ex has died. Major flailing because he loved her muchly but hasn’t been involved in more than passing for a decade. 😿
Apologies, dear Bacon, I know I am late
To make a request for a breakfast date
But could I please have a cappuccino
ummm Wanna show Perrineau your Mercutio? (stole that from Datarock lol)
Onto more 60s/70s music. Serge Gainsbourg is one of those artists I know I've heard somewhere and his influence is so pervasive across so many genres that it's basically a base flavour. But I never followed him up until now (yeah I know it's like not knowing the Beatles or something).
I couldn't believe Bonnie And Clyde - that smart backing loop with the whoop sounds like something out of the 2000s not the 1960s. And listening to Histoire de Melody Nelson is like going "oh THAT'S where all the trip hop and.... oh... oh wow it all started from here".
But my god I'm glad I don't understand the French lyrics. Between the awful treatment of women in his life, not crediting other artists (especially African sources) and the frankly vomit inducing hebephilia he's definitely one of those artists I wonder how to separate the artist from the work.
Dinner was V2 vegan "meat" in a muffin with mayo tomato sauce and a bit of uncooked mushroom. There are three left. I stopped eating cheese, drinking beer and having normal breaded stuff since I wanted to lose weight.
I have such a weird relationship with food since nearly everything I ate at the last place was either the reduced whatever from woolies or veges I grew myself and made into stew. Can't be bothered with spending an hour prepping for just me.
I live vicariously through all of your lovely food pics and kinda drool sometimes.
You're going crazy, the hitmen always find you
Do that dance, smokin' in the girls' room
Kissin' friends, keep a-rockin' and a-rollin' 'Cause the dead just love to rock and roll
My past hardwork and painful toil,
For me to sit here like a gargoyle
Perched upon my gaming throne,
Though in my hands is my phone.
With speakers hooked up to my PC,
Playing music quite easily,
I'm gazing down into my palm,
At another way to keep me calm.
I like to play mobile games,
I don't pay 'cause that's quite lame.
Am I still a real true gamer?
I once questioned it
Because of my vagina...
But decided that it didn't matter,
Because I didn't use it to game with.
But now I wonder,
My bits weren't the problem
But perhaps it's this mobile platform.
...
I decide I don't care, I like Match 3,
What's the trouble?
I'll perch here if I want, and keep playing Pokemon Shuffle!
Oh hey! An easy one! The country itself and all the neighbours are very distinctive shapes. It does treat an external territory as a neighbour, though.
Massive facepalm moment for me. I have played this game maybe 20 times, I only just noticed that the silhouette at the top is that of the country in question... I thought it was just some random shape
Finally onto A Storm of Swords in the ASOIAF! I forgot how much of a slog A Clash of Kings was, like it's in no way a bad book but (at least for me) it feels like the story is sort of simmering, apart from a few characters everyone's just sort of on their way to something more interesting.
Also forgot how much I didn't really care for Bran's chapters. I find Jojen, Meera, and Greywater Watch way more interesting.
My fav currently are Shanghai St Dumplings on Elizabeth St. The Fried Beef Dumplings(which contains cheese and beetroot) is out of this world good. For a while they were doing this cool thing where they were (I assume) pouring hot oil over the top of the dumpling too, which made it crispy in parts you wouldn't expect. Strong recommendation from a dumpling aficianado
That's just near Aussie Disposals yeah? I walked past but I didnt see anyone standing out front and wasnt sure of the process so I chickened out haha.
I ended up at Old Shanghai which was... passable I guess.
Mistakes were made 😬 and yeh that's the one. They sometimes have someone standing infront to welcome people, otherwise you just go up to the entry and someone will spot you and seat you
Shanghai Village used to be the best, but it got too busy and prices went up. Last time I went there, the dumplings were still good, but that was a while ago now.
I prefer that money be used for housing. People are mad the games are cancelled but how much angrier would people be if he wasted 6-7 billion for 12 days of athletics.
Today I am 32. I am properly in my 30's now and still have no idea what I'm doing with my life!!! But it's okay because I'm eating cake for breakfast.
OH! OH I know this one! You're going to physio a LOT more and actually paying attention when they give you exercises instead of your 20s where you just stuck the paper to the fridge and didnt do anything with them.
Happy Birthday.
Fuck I wish this wasn't true
I just wish I had taken up yoga a lot sooner - at least now when I throw my back out the recovery isn't nearly as long as it was when I was in my 20s and barely able to get off the ground because I never lifted with my legs.
My back injuries in my 20s and early 30s were much worse than current ones. Wish someone taught me about core strength when I was younger.
Shit, you went to the physio in your 20s? Talk about luxury hahaha.
Yeah I was in an accident as a kid I never totally recovered from. Like not horrific or anything, but just seemed to set things in motion. That and I'm an IT guy/gamer. A lot of sitting down.
Also hangovers hurt now.
Oh you think you know hangovers from your drunken 20's? You're a toddler on a trike saying you've been in a motorbike accident
There's something about this age where I think it's perfectly normal to think that...saying from experience. I'm six years removed from this very birthdate and still have no idea what I'm doing with my life but the current is taking me where it wants and I'm slowly but surely getting comfortable with that idea. I might snag a branch or two along the way and see if I can steer the course but it's all flowing downwards anyway. Happy birthday, though. And I hope you enjoyed that cake!
You're now old enough to know better, but young enough to recover if you don't.
Good times.
Happy birthday! I don't think anyone ever fully has any idea of what they're doing with their life. Cake for breaky is a pretty good starting point though 🎉
Great age, congratulations! Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday 🎂
Happy birthday 🎂🎈
Happy Birthday! Hope you have a fabulous day!
Happy Birthday! 🎂
Happy Birthday. 🤗😊big hugs and kisses 🎶🎉🥂🍰🍰🍰
Cake for breakfast sounds amazing. Happiest of birthdays to you.
Also, I have no idea what I'm doing with my life either. I'm trying to just get through each day. That's all we can do.
Happy birthday! 🎂🎈🥳
In-person interview Friday arvo. Universe, may I please request a small win in the form of a prompt response from this company? thank you
edit: ty for your kind words and emojis - you are all so amazing and beautiful 😭 💜 💜
🤞🏻🍀
🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
Sending you all my karma
👽 ☀️🔫🛸🌌🧳...🌬️💨🐄...🖥️👩💼📞
🥺😳😍🤗
🤞🏻
For all the great encouraging words you have given to myself and others I hope that the universe repays you in kind.
Wishing you the best!
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I'm a bit late to the party on this one but I too would like to wish you a speedy and favourable response! 🚅📧💨
The man is watching Enter The Dragon. The way he sits there like he hasn't watched it 20 times is pretty impressive.
Lizzo was amazing again ❤️ I struggled with the fact that a lot of the people in my section just did not stand up! It's Lizzo, it's dance music, you gotta stand, dance, and enjoy...so I did. Lol. I did sit more for this one then Mondays concert though. Is this standard for concerts? Because for both Lorde and Harry, we stood the entire time.
I think it depends from artist to artist. If I had to generalise - the older the crowd, the more likely people in the seats are going to sit for the entire concert. Lorde and Harry would attract a younger crowd, Lizzo an older crowd. I don't understand how people can sit through a pop/dance/rock/upbeat music concert and so I'll typically get GA tickets.
True, it could definitely be that, noticed a lot of parents with children, both young children and adult children that perhaps would prefer to sit. Thankfully the stands are tiered so no one other than the people beside me are standing at my level behind me (and I'm shortish) so I don't think I obstructed too many peoples views or at least I hope not.
Sometimes ppl purchase seated tickets cos they can’t stand for a period of time (disability/ fatigue/ chronic health issues/ sore feets from working all day…). If you wanna do more than dance/ enjoy while seated, select GA tix?
That is true, I hadn't considered that side of things. I would've got GA but they sold out before I could. And I chose still have a seat because whilst I wanted to stand and dance during the concert, I didn't love the idea of being sandwiched between a bunch of people as I overheat easily and struggle to regulate my temperature. It was just interesting observing the differences in even just the seated areas of crowds. Some sections were all standing and others weren't.
Oh no. The Bad Feels (blood rushing to face, starting to feel congested like you're about to cry) started to happen and I've been left hanging after a conversation. Burying my face in the cat isn't helping. What do. I'd eat a pizza if I had any appetite. Maybe I'll shut off the world and get into a good book like I keep threatening to. My eyes are getting too tired for TV...
I just microwaved a sweet potato everyone so my recertification for posting here is up to date.
📜👮♂️everything appears to be in order here. Carry on.
The potato salad I had just now was cooked by boiling.
Lol. Boiled salad
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It has been a rather lovely day today. Six hours work this morning, plus a bit of online shopping for some new shoes. This afternoon I was actually able to get outside in the sunshine and do some planting and weeding. Mr Woof got three walks, so he's pretty happy, and Miss Meow is currently enjoying some lap time (purring like a little engine). Pork rissoles and tray baked vegetable are on the menu for dinner. Plus I don't have to work tomorrow so don't need to get up at any particular time in the morning. I am judging today a success. 🙂
Manifesting my tax return to come through tonight as my ADHD assessment money is officially coming out and I'll have no money until tomorrow night (pay night).
I owe money, so I'm in absolutely no hurry to do mine.
I lodged mine last night.. I'm gonna get a return which amounts to less than a weeks pay. Glad someone in this thread is getting something worth waiting for, but I hope you don't have to wait too long!
The only reason mine is even sort of worth waiting for is because I've claimed a lot back. Otherwise it would be very sad. Lol.
Phone interview scheduled for this morning, soon.
Might go for a walk later in the afternoon.
For now I'll stay seated drinking my coffee
Waiting for another job to tell me they like me
edit: @[email protected] @[email protected] - went well, in-person interview will be set up soon for the coming days, hopefully I'll be making bank soon ahahha
Good luck!
Sending you good vibes for being such a supportive and wonderful person and you deserve something good!
Edit: Ooohh it's progressing! I really hope you get it!
Re: edit. Woohoo 🙌🎉
Goooo you got this!!! 💪💪💪
YAY!!! I'm really happy with this news.
Butter chicken for dins..
Not mine though. Parents scored it from their apparently golf club's kitchen and gave it to me.
All I have to do is reheat it and fuck up the rice.
I made way too much lasagne.
It might have overflowed a bit into the oven. This does, however, mean there are some good crispy bits.
don't rinse the riceeeeeee
Boo rinse the rice! Rinse the rice! 😜
b...b...b...but the starch! 😭😱💀
Gotta be washed
Makes me happy other people are on the no rinse choo choo train.
Ssssssss 🐍
Sssssstarch :)
Use brown rice instead. It's not great in texture, but non rinse and soooo good for you.
Bit over ordering Didi or Uber 20 minutes before work and they rock up so I'm late to work. So I'm finally contacting a driving instructor who is good for folks with adhd/anxiety so I can get my P's. I guess now I have to save up for a car.
It made all the difference to me. Was a long journey before I became confident behind the wheel but it was 100% worth it. Which part of Melbourne are you in, I might have a recommendation.
I got a reference for someone good with folks who have anxiety and ADHD. So I'm pretty keen.
I changed my phone wallpaper, font and icon style last night and it feels like I got a new phone! That scratches that little itch I had. The hardware of my phone is still excellent so there's no need to get a new one.
::: spoiler image is of my phone's sexy first home screen :::
Sexy indeed....but Edge as a browser?
Yeah I'm full Edge these days. Works well having the same browser ecosystem across all of my PCs and phone. I even have my default search engine set to Bing as a trial (to take full advantage of the Bing Chat AI feature) but that might be going back to Google soon. Bing isn't quite there yet, even though I do like the Bing Chat AI.
That's pretty.....
::: spoiler spoiler Edgy :::
I use Edge at work cause SharePoint works better than other browsers. Still can't go past Firefox as my main one.
Bing is fine, but Bing maps ain't it. I use the Chat AI at work to draft emails. No one has picked up on it yet.
Bing is not fine. I use Edge for work, but the amount of times I search something forgetting it'll use bing, try and fail to find the result on the first page and have to switch to google is nuts. The ads are so much more in your face too!
Hahaha...I guess it's fine for what I use it for, also work related. For normal searches I'm still using google
Hey what do you people think of Dan's decision to axe the com games?
I think this is a very important turning point in Australian politics. For the first time ever the good of the common people have been prioritised over business.
None of this crap about job creation we would get from the LNP. The facts are plain, games are a cost and the losers are the people.
And we can't justify it as being a PR exercise in the Cold War, we aren't in the Cold War anymore, it's turned into a hot war that we backing .
Great call, and it's annoying the media outlets are by-and-large trying to make it an even bigger deal than I feel it needs to be. I understand that a few sports stars are put out, and regionally speaking it hurts some areas in some respects - but we could be fucking celebrating the fact that a fiscally responsible decision was made, and one that should still provide benefits that are needed more (like housing) compared with the cheap Olympics ripoff the Comms games are.
Strong indifference.
heavy GenX vibe
Not unique to just you guys. Millennials over it too.
I'm on the cusp of both.
I'd honestly completely forgot we were throwing it for a bit there heh.
I hope it sparks discussion about the obscene costs and requirements involved with other sporting events too (it won't though probably).
Yeah found out through that not only were we to host it but we've also canned it.
In the current financial climate, I somewhat respect it. But struggle to care much about it.
My friends only became aware of it when the cancellation announcement was made.
I don't really have much interest in the Commonwealth games and if it's going to be a massive loss in budget I'd rather go without it.
Could also do without all the intense media coverage too.
I forgot we were hosting it, but I'm glad the funds allocated are being assigned to more pressing issues. I think Dan made the right call.
About the games specifically, I do not care who hosts it. I haven't cared about the Commonwealth Games for over a decade.
I think for Andrews it's a "damned if you do damned if you don't" situation where the media are concerned. Honestly the media in this country by and large deserves a severe lashing; all reactions and sensationalism and little analysis, absolutely pathetic. I agree with the decision, and was a bit surprised we were going to host it to begin with.
Fuck. One last bit of paperwork from my old workplace and I'm finally free of it. I'm still undecided as to whether I'll take a bunch of further action against them or not. I have nothing to gain and being vindictive is not in my nature. Justice however is a different matter. I'll seek some psuedo legal advice from one of my best friends who practised law for a long time, he's also been a life coach, mentor and father figure and I've always taken his advice, as it's usually so good.
Walked nearly 10ks yesterday. The body is getting used to it slowly. This sprained wrist is only healing very slowly and may be getting worse again. I bought a better support for it but the new job and constant use of my hands outside it means it's going to be a long haul I think.
Working again today and who knows when for the rest of the week. I'll manage financially for the time being and with any luck won't have to touch my savings. Just going to have live frugally for a while, which is fine. I have almost everything I need, so stopping having a disposable income won't be a big deal. Just have to quit wearing make up and buying expensive skin care products, which is also fine. There's peer pressure from other trans women a lot I find to "pass" meaning people can't know you're trans. It's bullshit pure and simple as far as I'm concerned. I'm happy that for some people that's what they want for themselves, but I've never bought into gender stereotypes and I'm not about to be bullied into starting buying into them. It's also really important to be visible at the moment I think as well. I'm not winning friends by being direct about my response to this, but I'm done with trying to be a people pleaser.
Thanks for reading, journalling here is therapy and its good to be regular with it so I can look back over this time down the track and see what I was doing and feeling and such....
Kthxbyte xo
One aspect of the old workplace situation might bear some consideration. Making a complaint or whatever, is the effect such has on the person that treated you so badly. Not a personal effect, but on the formal record. This makes it more possible for future employees of that person to have some warning of what that person has done before and might do again. So it's harder for the nasty person to say "I'm not the nasty person, it was them over there". One could call this an act of charity rather than being vindictive. Legal advice sounds like a good starting point to me.
Pretty soon I'll have the final paperwork sorted, so I'll phone the lgbtqia+ legal service for advice as well. The nightclub industry is rife with illegal behaviour. The culture of sexual harassment is gross and I brought it up with them many times and their failure to do anything emboldened a staff member to harass and sexually assault me. It wasn't a particularly bad assault but I'll also likely report that to police as it was the crux of all the issues and thier reluctance to take it seriously was a terrible lack of due process. While that didn't happen at work, it happened immediately after in my car, when I was giving them a fucking lift home. Also most the bullshit happened after I came out as trans.
big hugs
Thanks I'm over the worst of it thankfully.
Feeling a bit weird today. I need something, but I dunno what. It was not a coffee, but hey at least I ruled that out haha
A hot jam doughnut.
Man I could go for two
A duck! A ladder! A waterballoon! A certificate of achievement! A Team! A Bee, See! A sense that you've gone on holiday and left wet clothes in the washing machine at home! A single fettuccini noodle! A country song about a dog! A list of random nonsense! ( 🤞 ) A turtle!
::: spoiler spoiler: a turtle 🐢 :::
Chicken noodle soup with basic dough dumplings.
Fuck that sounds amazing. For breakfast as well... god, talk about noms.
Flour, baking powder, salt and some milk (plant or moo)...mix well until it's just sticky. I put in chopped veggies into the mix sometimes too. Make little balls and drop them into the soup a couple of minutes before serving.
God tier peasant food.
Whaaat? vegies in the dumplings? I've never heard of that. Interesting. Oooo imagine making chilli ones. Ooooo.
Onion (fried of course), shredded carrot, shredded zucchini, canned corn (these are good), kimchi if that's your thang.
My mum used to do whatever we had at hand.
Love it. We only had plain ones that sat on top of the stew. My dad made them whenever mum made the stew.
No idea where my mum got the idea for veggies in it, but it works.
is that all there is to it? Might be worth a go! Do you know any places in the city that serve it?
Alas, I do not. Ramen is an adequate substitute though.
Oh god... I remember reading something about this. I think the answer was "water". As in, if you're not sure what your body needs but it need something then drink some water. But that might be for headaches.
Fuck it. Default to whiskey. That'll fix what ails ya!
To the pub!
A burger?
Morning all. I’m stripping my bed to do my sheets
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🤖💗
Time to go to bed. Anyone wanna join? I snore but I cuddle good
There’s nothing wrong with rewatching shows/movies if you really enjoy it. Just starting on a rewatch (lost count) of The Mist (2007)… and no I do not recommend the series that came out in 2017
I always rewatch things. It's a comfort thing.
I rewatch lotr and hobbit. It's also watching to see what I may have missed.
I should rewatch lotr. I haven’t seen the hobbit movies though.
They any good?
They are too long.
Yes a comfort thing
Same with audiobooks for me. I always listen while drifting off to sleep. First run through is fun and interesting, then repeats are more soothing and I don't mind I'm missing bits, pay less attention, and fall asleep easier
See for me personally I can’t do audiobooks, wish I could but I can’t listen and do other stuff. Music is different as I know the lyrics so I can listen or sing and not pay attention. With audiobooks I need to listen to what’s been said, and if I’m paying attention to what’s said I may as well just read a physical book or e-book. Plus I find most audiobook speakers to be boring. And I know you can always rewind the audiobook if I miss bits but yeah I still stand behind physical or e book instead, which is what I’ve been doing
Yeh I get that. It is probably poor sleep hygiene for me, and def leads me to staying awake for too long sometimes, but I prefer to have something so I don't need to listen to my thoughts 😬
Yeah I understand
I got an Audible win today - found that I had a recurring subscription but I never have used it. Must have been some free trial with an Amazon purchase. It's been running for months and months - total of over $270! - and I could not find an Amazon account it's attached to.
So I called them today. They will not specify the Amazon account it belongs to because 'security', but they say they've stopped the payments and will refund the entire amount.
Yay for that. Pricks.
Yay Thomas Jane!
He’s really good in this movie
Is the ending as bad(sad) as I remember?
Yes. Still as heart breaking each rewatch
I keep rewatching movies all the time without shame and tv shows too.
Same same. You would think I would be sick of it 😅
Oh I never get sick of stuff, just sometimes not in the mood for certain genres.
I just rotate through them based on my mood or if I want some background noise on.
I’m definitely based on my mood type and rotating between shows
Small insignificant rant. I browse news.com.au. I'm not going to apologise. I want to know if anyone's died or if anything has been recalled. I don't bother about any of the other shit. Occasionally though something might catch my eye. Which brings me to my next rant.
Macca's. Now I love a cheese burger, filet-o-fish and nuggets like any other little piggy but when times are tough and all you have to offer is your shitty little sauces I have to ask "is that it?". How about bringing back your loose change menu? How about your 24 nuggets for $10? Stop with the crumb throwing. Show as a decent deal.
They may do it every now and then but not permanently. Unless you’re using the Maccas app (which I hear sometimes has nice deals? Idk I don’t use it, just heard from other people) Maccas isn’t cheap anymore. And I’m not talking inflation, it stopped being the quick cheap fast food option about 3-4 years ago? Maybe more 3? I only eat Maccas if I’m craving for something in particular like occasionally a Big Mac or filo o fish or apple pie. Heck have you seen how expensiv, if you like the taste of the cookies just get a packet of malt o milk at colesworth, they taste quite similar. They’re about the same price (cheaper on sale, so grab a few) they just won’t have the Maccas character etched on it.
24 nuggets is $11.95.. that's pretty good
I agree about the maccas menu.
It’s not great value for money, especially since the other day I got that tin of herring and slapped it between two pieces of bread and that was cheaper than buying a cheese burger.
That ton of herring alone had more meat in it than a maccas cheeseburger has which is really sad.
I do miss the loose change days where you could grab something for a dollar.
I recently ate a cheeseburger from maccas because it was a birthday freebie and it was pretty sad and small.
I just think that a billion dollar company should be giving us a little bit more than "try our new sauces". How about a good deal to go with those sauces you tight-arses?
Yeah, the sauce would cost them next to nothing to make them a little bit bigger.
By the way sorry to go off topic but the lads are up in 8 minutes.
Yes. Very excited. Carn Aussies.
Also to add to your rant I get stupid emails about getting 10 dollar savings from Woolworths…if I buy 170 dollars worth of groceries in one shot for pickup or direct to boot.
170 dollars?! Are they insane?
Edit: we still have Warner playing and we’re going in with no spinners. Hope we’ll be ok to handle the opposition.
I am eating potato salad.
Aw yeah potato salad
Deserves a proper ballad
Bacon in it, Bacon eats it
Sour cream and mayonnaise it
Some gherkins and some celery
Sprinkle on some parsley
With apple my Opa would make it
Lick the bowl, don't forget it
I make the bestest potat salad , I use a very old Graham Kerr recipe.
🤤 🤤 🤤
Microwaved salad.
Yummy Yummy!
I have the same with my guy & I tested the water by just saying what I wanted to talk about as I figured I could more easily just say my peace rather than asking him to change. It has pretty much self-resolved as he listens and then engages and asks clarifying questions.
It’s kinda been nice to realise it’s okay to talk about myself without prompting. I can see it really assisting with open communication between us.
Hope you work something out that suits you too. 🖤
This is great advice, I've noticed with some people they don't think to ask, but there's nothing wrong with offering the information yourself. And as someone with adhd, try not to overthink it.
Hope it works out!
If not, talking through your perspective & feelings is a great start to showing them why it holds importance to you.
If It's worrying you enough to ask that here, it is definitely worth bringing up.
Before bringing anything up have a think about exactly what it is that is worrying you. Is it just that specific question of "how is your day" or are you feeling that he is not showing interest in what you are doing in your life in general? Also think a bit about how your communication is going in general and whether the issue is about him not asking, or maybe a mismatch in communication style - for example if you tend to lead with a lot of questions straight away but he tends to have more space in a conversation before he initiates things, then the answer would be not just for him to ask more, but for you to also allow a bit more space for him to do so.
With a clearer idea of what the issue is it makes it easier to raise it in a problem-solving rather than accusatory manner. So using my previous example, instead of saying "why don't you ever ask how my day is going" you can ask something like "I feel like I ask about your day more than you ask me. Do I need to give you more space to ask things, or is there something else?". That is much less likely to get a defensive reaction, and more likely to lead to a productive discussion that can help improve things.
Are you like, partners? Dating? If so, go for it. If not, I wouldnt mention it. Not until the relationships better defined.
So my boss was interviewing people the other day for the other role at our job. And so we had a new person come in today and she's nice, found out she lives near me so she offered to give me a ride to and from work which is great.
But I found out that my boss had to let her go (after like 2 1/2 hours of work). I think it's just because she wasn't understanding quickly what my boss was explaining. Like I don't know the exact ins and outs but yeah. Apparently I set the bar high.
Was pretty keen to get a lift to and from work.
2.5 hours?? That seems wildly unreasonable
Yeah, that seems awfully fast to get rid of someone.
Unless they're completely useless and any longer would be a waste of everyone's time.
Maybe.
You’d be doing well if you can tell that in that shorter time frame though. They coulda been just nervous.
I was completely useless at my first burger flipping job for way more than 2.5hrs (weeks / months really when the pressure was on at lunch slam).
Ended up smashing them badbwoys out in record time soon after.
Sometimes people just need a bit of time and TLC.
Yeah I'm not too sure why. Again, I don't know about the ins and outs when it comes to why. But yeah I was pretty shocked.
I mean I imagine it was a trial like what I had. But yeah I was surprised after 2.5hrs. I didn't pick it up quickly but 🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻
Now reading Kingdom Come, the 1996 DC Comic miniseries.
Still cooked dinner even though I got home late from work and felt super tired. A lazier me would have just gotten take out. Bolognese with garlic bread hit the spot. I’m now too full to clean the kitchen.
What’s for dinner? I’m making a pumpkin lentil soup.
Leftover pizza 🍕
Home made fried rice and sweet and sour pork. Mr Peeler was a chef and when he gets his shit together the food is freaking awesome!
@[email protected] what is pepperonata?
Did it ever answer?
It did not, but you did. So that's okay
Bad bot. It’s my go to for excess caps when the fruitshop chuckout table has bounty.
In my opinion: long strip sliced red and yellow capsicum simmered with onion, garlic, pepper, smidge of stock. The caps may or may not be charred & peeled first. An over ripe tomato optional. Use as pasta sauce right now, or jar as an oil type pickle.
omg, I just had some home made pumpkin soup with a half an olive bread roll. I'll have a piece of vegie pizza later
Leftover Thai red curry beef and rice.
More pasta tonight in bolognaise sauce!
I'm doing a vegie tray bake and pork rissoles.
With the whole Hollywood strike going on it got me thinking - there is SO much content that if something weird were to happen whereby no more movies or TV shows were to ever be made, I'd be fine with the sheer amount of content that has been generated up to this day. Like, if some weird, I don't know, space temporal displacement happened whereby Hollywood (or hell, anyone - BBC, Australian TV, etc.) were able to make anything else then there is enough content available for a lifetime regardless.
Obviously in saying that it would mean an entire industry would be out of work permanently... so this hypothetical situation has massive economic pressures as well. But still... this strike could go on for years and I'd still be playing catch up.
The sad truth is there isnt much interesting coming out these days either. The current season of the Witcher is almost unwatchable. Secret Invasion is "Meh" at best. Silo was disappointing. I couldn't tell you the last thing we loved, beyond probably Picard? But even that had a horrible first 2 seasons. Grand Tour Eurocrash was ok. I am excited about Thank God You're Here though.
I hate how much Disney have churned out their TV shows. They fell into the same trap that Netflix did with the Defenders - it started out so promising only to become a bloated, overdrawn mess.
I really don't care about investing more time on the Witcher since Henry Cavill left. If he felt it was worth ditching the show because the writers were getting it wrong, then why the fuck would I bother with it either?
Meanwhile there's shows I haven't see in forever that I'd love to re-watch. Sopranos, Breaking Bad (and I haven't seen Better Call Saul yet), Daredevil and Jessica Jones... there's too many to list actually.
And yes - I'm with you on that as well about TGYH. Aussie TV can be so frustrating sometimes since they'll be on a winner only to can it for no real good reason. Chanel 7 are dickheads for buying it only to can it after what, two seasons?
I wish they'd bring back Good News Week.
Bloated is the right word for it. Can anyone remember who the bad guy was in Ms Marvel? Can you tell me what happened in She Hulk beyond the Wong cameo? Cause I sure as shit cant. Kenobi SUCKED.
GNW was amazing! Have You Neen Paying Attention can be ok, but the dumping on Tom thing is getting a little old. And at its worst its super disrespectful to its guests. Its all fun if everyone's in on the joke, but there's such a thing as taking it to far.
I did enjoy the new episodes of Spicks and Specks.
Happy Valley is very good, if you like gritty crime shows with well written characters.
New Jack Ryan isn't that bad. Strange Worlds is fine. Prime seems to be doing the best shows at the moment.
I didn't even know the new Witcher season came out. Giving it a miss for reasons.
I didnt even know Jack Ryan had a season 3. Thats queued up on.... things. For the Witcher do you want me to recap the season for you? I'm only 3 eps in but so far its a bunch of sour looks and characters shouting "Ciri!" "Geralt!" Yen!" and the occasional quip for Jask. There you go, now you've missed nothing!
S3 was my favourite one. Really good cat and mouse setup with betrayals all over the place.
S4 is more action than anything only six eps. Probably could have used 2 or 3 more to flesh out the story, cause the entire thing is massively rushed. Still worth a watch.
I've done so many rewatches of things, that I've missed out on a heap of newer content.
It's not a bad place to be. And I figure, should this strike continue, I'll be ready to rewatch stuff again.
Or go back to reading. Actually making progress through 2 different books right now and watching less during the week.
We're re-watching Supernatural. Had watched the original seasons 1-5 years ago and shat on the idea of the show continuing after the show runner was like "nope, my plan was always 5 seasons so I won't be staying on", only to turn around after the show's continued success and go "actually this is really cool I want back in." So yeah, 15 seasons at about 2-3 episodes a week is going to take us quite a while. And that's just one show. I saw the thread on Monday where you were talking about that show Justified and I was like "shit, that sounds like a cool show" so that's now on the list. Good thing that list is digital as I'd have to fell a whole forest for the parchment required to write the list out.
Took me a bit to get into Justified honestly. First season is essentially 'case of the week' with a bit of an overarching plot and recurring characters. After that it gets really good.
I still have seen 0 episodes of Supernatural. Might give it a crack one day. Always seemed like a kiddie X-Files for me and not very interesting.
Good to know about Justified - I don't mind too much the idea of a "case of the week" so long as it's not its staple. I love shows that evolve in that way, rewarding longer time viewers with a payoff for the foundation/structure of the earlier part of the narrative.
Supernatural is more akin to Buffy and Angel, I think - at least the first three or so seasons Overarching bad-guy with an episodic baddie of the week kind of thing. But the further you go the more you realise the key moments interwind towards something much more. The show runner, Eric Kripke, wrote a plan for how the who story arch of the first five seasons would play out and it's easy to appreciate that kind of forward planning - even if the third (?) season was hit with the last writers' strike.
That said, yeah, it's definitely not as serious as X-Files. It has a lighter tone for the most part, with some episodes which are put together really well from a comedic perspective.
It's ART. Content is a product you find in cereal boxes.
Sadly I'm on rewatches because I watch way too much content and have gobbled up just about every half decent show/movie in each genre I like. In good news.. new Justified today woo!
Rewatches are also great - I want to go back and watch things like Legion, as that's definitely a show that I feel would give a huge amount of benefit the second-time around. I'm also on my third run of Shorsey which I watch when doing cardio, and that's only after running through Letterkenny a secondtime.
I saw you mention Justified the other day and hadn't heard of it, but I'm going to start that soon. Looks like a really cool show, and I love the idea of a neo-western, too.
I just did a Legion rewatch a couple of months ago. That show was art. I honestly pity those who watched it on a low-quality screen or with low-quality non-surround audio, especially the audio. Those people didn't get the entire audio-visual experience. It's like when people downloaded rips of Avatar and hated it when it came out rather than going to watch it in 3D at a cinema. I will only watch Legion using my Sony WH1000XM3s for that surround and rich sound, because I don't have a full surround sound system on my PC or TV. Hearing every maddening whisper, music cue, tone. So good.
God, wasn't it! For me it's one of the few shows where you can examine a LOT of it on so many different levels. The art and direction, the choice of style which in of itself is intentionally timeless. The acting was on point. The sheer chaos of some moments... I actually used it for some of my masters' thesis on exploring the use of the unreliable narrator in speculative fiction.
Justified is brilliant, I just finished a binge watch of the original series. Justified: City Primeval starts soon (today I think actually). Really looking forward to the new series, set in Detroit this time. Raylan is back but I think the rest are new characters.
Ages ago I impulse-purchased the best earbuds you can pretty much get (WF-1000XM4) thinking I could force myself to enjoy them considering so many people like that format of headphone. I've been an over-ear enjoyer for many years and always felt like buds would fall out of my apparently little ear holes. They've been sitting in a drawer pretty much since I bought them but I'm once again trying to use them now that I bought some aftermarket tips which apparently help. Been listening to some folk music while doing the dishes over lunch and it has actually been alright! I still keep fiddling with one of them thinking it feels like it might fall out. Not sure how many others have this weirdness with inner-ear buds.
It is nice not having the weight/heat of the over-ears. I might take these on holiday and see if I can finally get some use out of them.
Meanwhile; kitchen is clean, mixed some chamomile & grapefruit oils into my diffuser and I have a cold drink. I'm ready for this afternoons meetings.
I've never been able to use ear buds. I've tried multiple types, including ones with multiple tips, and none of them work - they are either uncomfortable or fall out. I've just accepted they are not for me and now use over ear ones instead.
I’ve learnt to use in ear monitors with loops. Normal bugs just fall out which was a major frustration.
Good for form factor and when I don’t want to wear my full sized over ear sets.
I have the XM3s in-ear and I love them. That something so small can be so effective at noise-cancelling is amazing. They came with various sizes of tips and it was trial and error to find the pair that fitted and stayed in place.
Lots and of people have the problem. It’s a problem with the product, not you. One size fits all doesn't really work, it excludes body shape differences between genders and ethnicities. Was probably tested to fit on an average Caucasian male ear. Aftermarket tips should hopefully help. Would be nice if different sizes came as standard option though.
Starting to feel a little more human today, but aside from doing some washing, am forcing myself to continue resting in case I undo all of the good work my resting is doing. Just hoping for some sunshine so I can lie in it for a bit.
Ew just found out my best friend listens to Joe Rogan's motivational stuff. She's a messy person who falls pray to bullshit quite often so I can only imagine she's hanging on every toxic unhelpful word he says.
I listen to some of these podcasts just to hear what the fuss is about, to learn about what my fellow humans are doing and why and ... I am amazed such intelligent people, like Rogan and Peterson, can believe such a lot of shite when the facts are so easy to find. It must take some real deep distrust of government to discard what is plain in front of your eyes.
I will say this positive thing about those popular broadcasters, they are kind and caring and insightful regarding the pressures endured by working class men and they don't call them deplorable. This is why they are popular.
Did you read this article too? https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2023/07/10/christine-emba-masculinity-new-model/
There's a huge problem and JP has found a way to exploit it.
I don't know that he is so much exploiting as the disenfranchised have latched onto him.
A really really really important thing to remember, and I cannot emphasise this enough, is that no one is all wrong or all right. Everyone is going to share some beliefs and disbeliefs with other people.
Unfortunately there has been a recent tendency ( note my use of the word tendency that Marx himself loved to use ) toward puritanical rejection of a whole person when there is disagreement on one issue. A tendency of rejection that has been amplified by the Russians using social media to create division in the Western world ( there is proof of this ) .
So you have people who feel rejected listen to Rogan and Peterson and they agree with some of what they say. Then they accept all of what they say through loyalty and group identity. Another thing is you overestimate how intelligent and reasonable people are. Average people just don't have the skills to refute them, ( I admit I struggle refuting Peterson and I'm pretty good at this ) he is amazingly intelligent with an IQ of at least 150.
Anyway, the attachment to the broadcasters is emotional, the disenfranchised feel they have a champion in these people, they feel heard.
I suggest if we want to limit the power of demagogues we start listening to people, that we stop telling them what they should believe and how they should live. Give them an ear.
I like you seagoon. I think you're clever.
In a similar way, I guess, I find it pretty ridiculous that people are quick to overlook that there may be some benefit to some of what JP is saying. There is, for some.
In the same way that people latch on to some of the negatives because they agree with the positives and want to feel part of something -- I feel the inverse is true, perhaps more true, that people immediately disregard the entirety of someone's veiws or works because there are a few bits that are an affront to them (hello cancel culture, and fuck ya).
I heard Peterson rip a well known anti-trans and racist writer a new one. He saw right through her down to the deepest lie and told her to her face her position was based in her personal white supremacist arrogance . She paused for a short moment then continued.
Nothing will stop these haters, nothing. Because it is irrational. Her followers are also irrational and do not care about refutation. His interview was very instructive on what these people are like because it was real and in real time.
I am not so naïve to think that an interviewer necessarily agrees with what the interviewee says . I also think an interviewer doesn't have to label or spell out to the audience what they should think.
Should we avoid listening to things that are difficult? Of course not. If we want to change the world we have to learn how to do it.
Fascinating read, thanks for the link. I've not really engaged with any JP content, but I've heard enough about him to know to avoid it.
Avoiding is not the way. If we learn about it then we are better able to counter it when we see it.
And that avoiding is what I wrote about, it's cowardly to run from things you don't like. Face it, counter it, change minds.
Joe's net worth is $120m and Jordan $8m. Not really sure that they care about the working class, other than to elicit Patreon donations from them.
You're right tho, they are intelligent people, they have both worked out that there is a cohort of disenfranchised young men (always has been) that, if communicated to in a certain way, can be used to build their audience. Bigger audience = more ad revenue, books and speaking tours.
So working class men are being told by these millionaires that traditional masculinity is in decline, that women have too much power these days, and minority interests threaten their very existence. LGBTQ, BLM, Equal Rights are all out to get the traditional 'man'. It's nonsense. These movements have been around for decades in one form or another, we just live in a time when some people can amplify and monetise the myth.
So the amount of money a person has determines the veracity of their words? It's irrelevant.
But people do tend to believe rich and educated people even when they are talking about issues in which they have no expertise. It's crazy.
I think it's a social status/work thing, people, especially men, tend to identify with their job or profession and when their is high unemployment like in the Rust Belt, they have crises.
maybe if society recognised men as more than their job they wouldn't feel so bad .
Frustration taken out on yard, we now have a compost bin. w00t w00t, the worms shall feast!
(its twin is still sitting on concrete as a spillover 'cos our green bin is gonna be running hot for a while...really feeling the pain of moving to a council that hasn't done weekly green waste pickup yet)
Hi everyone. How are we all today?
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Tired, working hard to keep my emotions more positive so I can enjoy my last day of leave and relax.
A bit of a chilly start to the day. 3.4 degrees outside, but at last it is not wet or windy, so with a jacket on the dog walk wasn't too painful. Looking forward to some sun later. 🌞
I don't know if it's just me but I'm really struggling with the cold weather more than other times this year.
The cold this year does seem to have a special ability to suck the heat from everything else quickly too.
Idiot manager was away yet again, so we managed to get productive things done and even have a bit of fun. If only they were ill enough to retire…
Orville refresher before tackling S2 of From. God, even the worst ep is decent*
I got lost towards the end of season 2. I don’t know what it was, it just wasn’t super accessible for some reason.
It started being too serious and too 'Star Trek'. Lost a bit of the comedic edge.
At least that's what I remember.
I dunno, I have an easier time following star trek. I think this just didnt do a good enough job of world building. The humor felt out of place against the serious tones. It needed to pick a lane and stick with it I reckon.
Nah. It balanced the two beautifully once it found its feet.
Hard to disagree.
Fuck no.
If you want to complain about it 'losing the comedic edge' that happened almost out of the gate. Literally, the first couple of eps were sleepers to get past fox execs.
Drives me nuts when people go 'it stopped being funny and got political' what exactly about the third ep was funny and non-political?
(Yes, it did have funny moments. But it's not a comedy. It's just very very human)
I cannot recall what the 3rd episode was about. In fact, I can barely recall most of the episodes.
ok, so why comment on something you can barely recall? Makes no sense.
Because from what I can recall it was a funny show that lost it's edge. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Such is life.
I always wondered if your username was an Orville reference!
I've started season 3. Only two episodes in. ::: spoiler spoiler I was told the third season is darker and the first ep of season 3 certainly fits that description. :::
Considsring i've been using for literal decades, no. No it is not.
But i do kneejerk every time Teleya's name is said lol
Orville enjoyer checking in ✅
Semi related note: I can't stand Avenue 5 with Hugh Laurie. The humour is soooo bad. Just me or what?
oh dell support I fkcing hate you and your constant link changing. Just gimme the farkin' IDRAC firmware images
Poor boyo has a major Sad. The cat he left with the ex has died. Major flailing because he loved her muchly but hasn’t been involved in more than passing for a decade. 😿
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Apologies, dear Bacon, I know I am late
To make a request for a breakfast date
But could I please have a cappuccino
ummm Wanna show Perrineau your Mercutio? (stole that from Datarock lol)
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We close in the evening at eight
There are hours before you’re late
Oh thank you mighty Bacon!
You have really saved my... bacon? hehehe
🎸i ran into her on computer camp 🎶
Was that in '84?
Not sure... I had a Commodore 64 (had to score!)
Not with that tutor tramp
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SHES NOT A TRAMP! HER NAME IS JUDY! ^we can stop now but I really wanted to say that one^
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bacon. Much bacon. I passed out on the couch at 4am and got up at 7
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i love youuuuuuuuuu bacon
Breakfast burger today please with a super large coffee.
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Bacon and egg pita-bread pizza please 😁
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Arigato Gozaimasu 🙇♂️
A nice warm fry up this morning I think. Bacon, egg, potato, onion, sausage and mushroom. Plus an extra-hot black coffee please.
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Perfect temperature thank you.
🔋 for botbot too
Botbot thanks you, batteries do tend to get a bit sluggish in the cold weather and the extra charge is most welcome.
Onto more 60s/70s music. Serge Gainsbourg is one of those artists I know I've heard somewhere and his influence is so pervasive across so many genres that it's basically a base flavour. But I never followed him up until now (yeah I know it's like not knowing the Beatles or something).
I couldn't believe Bonnie And Clyde - that smart backing loop with the whoop sounds like something out of the 2000s not the 1960s. And listening to Histoire de Melody Nelson is like going "oh THAT'S where all the trip hop and.... oh... oh wow it all started from here".
But my god I'm glad I don't understand the French lyrics. Between the awful treatment of women in his life, not crediting other artists (especially African sources) and the frankly vomit inducing hebephilia he's definitely one of those artists I wonder how to separate the artist from the work.
Journaling time!
Dinner was V2 vegan "meat" in a muffin with mayo tomato sauce and a bit of uncooked mushroom. There are three left. I stopped eating cheese, drinking beer and having normal breaded stuff since I wanted to lose weight.
I have such a weird relationship with food since nearly everything I ate at the last place was either the reduced whatever from woolies or veges I grew myself and made into stew. Can't be bothered with spending an hour prepping for just me.
I live vicariously through all of your lovely food pics and kinda drool sometimes.
hey, would you mind if I sent you a dm?
Can The Artist (Formerly Known as Prince)'s estate get it together and let Spotify play this song please ffs
::: spoiler snipsnapsnopscreendiddlyshot
ID: screenshot of Spotify showing the song 'Givin' 'Em What They Love' by Janelle Monae and Prince as unavailable to play :::
First midnight snack in a while gang wish me luck..
Only a sausage roll but I need it.
C'mon Aussies C'mon C'mon Oi oi oi
You're going crazy, the hitmen always find you
Do that dance, smokin' in the girls' room
Kissin' friends, keep a-rockin' and a-rollin'
'Cause the dead just love to rock and roll
*^how/is/DanceApocalyptic/ten/years/old/omg^
My past hardwork and painful toil,
For me to sit here like a gargoyle
Perched upon my gaming throne,
Though in my hands is my phone.
With speakers hooked up to my PC,
Playing music quite easily,
I'm gazing down into my palm,
At another way to keep me calm.
I like to play mobile games,
I don't pay 'cause that's quite lame.
Am I still a real true gamer?
I once questioned it
Because of my vagina...
But decided that it didn't matter,
Because I didn't use it to game with.
But now I wonder,
My bits weren't the problem
But perhaps it's this mobile platform.
...
I decide I don't care, I like Match 3,
What's the trouble?
I'll perch here if I want, and keep playing Pokemon Shuffle!
I’ve been listening to Porgy and Bess. It’s time for something quite different
omg, It's LP listening day today and I'm about to listen to the original soundtrack LP with Sydney Poitier and Dorothy Dandridge 😀
the Cleo Laine version? imo the absolute best.
I got myself a Caitlin Foord Matildas shirt today.
Let's see how much tosser Werner makes. Sorry meant weiner
The consulting industry has probably really taken a hit after all that govt contract shemozzle. I know because Accenture is advertising on YouTube.
Fuck he's a loser
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Oh hey! An easy one! The country itself and all the neighbours are very distinctive shapes. It does treat an external territory as a neighbour, though.
Massive facepalm moment for me. I have played this game maybe 20 times, I only just noticed that the silhouette at the top is that of the country in question... I thought it was just some random shape
Sir, wot
That one time it was Australia? 😂
I have literally just been starting with a random country and trying to figure it out from there
I haven't done Worldle in yonks. You inspired me to this…
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Finally onto A Storm of Swords in the ASOIAF! I forgot how much of a slog A Clash of Kings was, like it's in no way a bad book but (at least for me) it feels like the story is sort of simmering, apart from a few characters everyone's just sort of on their way to something more interesting.
Also forgot how much I didn't really care for Bran's chapters. I find Jojen, Meera, and Greywater Watch way more interesting.
Loser out again
Any recommendations for some good pan fried dumping's down Melbourne Central end of the city?
My fav currently are Shanghai St Dumplings on Elizabeth St. The Fried Beef Dumplings(which contains cheese and beetroot) is out of this world good. For a while they were doing this cool thing where they were (I assume) pouring hot oil over the top of the dumpling too, which made it crispy in parts you wouldn't expect. Strong recommendation from a dumpling aficianado
You can't really taste the beetroot but omg it is certainly doing something good in there
I’ve had beetroot chocolate cake before. Ditto on the can’t exactly taste it but something works.
That's just near Aussie Disposals yeah? I walked past but I didnt see anyone standing out front and wasnt sure of the process so I chickened out haha. I ended up at Old Shanghai which was... passable I guess.
You'll just have to go get dumplings again! I second the rec for Shanghai St, it's the place to go.
Mistakes were made 😬 and yeh that's the one. They sometimes have someone standing infront to welcome people, otherwise you just go up to the entry and someone will spot you and seat you
Haha I was in aussie disposals and everything! Do they do take away?
Yup they do 👍
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Can't beat them.
Disagree. Overpriced and overhyped now I reckon
Looks like they're both pushing $17-18 for 10-12pcs which is pushing it.
My local in kew (called dumpling guys) pedals 12pcs for $11.
Shanghai Village used to be the best, but it got too busy and prices went up. Last time I went there, the dumplings were still good, but that was a while ago now.
Ugh. I loved Shanghai, that's disappointing.