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aussie.zone

Thanks for the support yesterday everyone. I had a decent night sleep and am feeling better.

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Tofureply

You will find a job at another company, get a raise, and wave that stack of extra cash in their faces

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You got this. You are actually in a stronger position now, as the comfortable lies are now off the table. Time to look for a better place.

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I'm glad you're feeling better! It's difficult to weather but you're doing great! You will find something that pays better anyway, you got the skills that pays those bills bro. ๐Ÿ’œ

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aussie.zone

I get unreasonably irritated by the pop-up chats when online shopping. They obscure the screen in the worst positions to get your attention, and pop up within 5 seconds of landing on the site. No, I do not want to chat to โ€˜Haileyโ€™. I just got here, put away your chat bot and let me browse please. And then it whines when trying to close the chat window, are you sure you want to close chat? Look mate, if I wanted to be harassed by aggressive sales staff I can do that in person, I donโ€™t need the service extended to online shopping.

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Yes! I online shop to avoid people, especially forced up sell litanies at the register.

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Or worse - frequent popups of 'SomeBozo in Buttsville bought such-and-such!'

Cool. Even if the popups don't fully block what I'm looking at the flickering appearances of those messages is still breaking my concentration and causing visual stress

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aussie.zone

A weird side effect of going through winter carless is the mental health boost from the enforced walk when I have to go into work. Definitely doing better than normal so far. Who would have thought that exercise and a little natural light would do wonders.

Narrator: everyone....literally first or second on every mental health suggestion list...

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Lol I feel the same. I say I hate going out, but really I hate the at-home-before-going-out part. Once I'm out, I feel great and so much better

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aussie.zone

I have a doctor I have to see every 2 weeks. She's an almost 4 hour round trip on public transport.

It fucking sucks, but she's amazing. First paycheck of new job, I'm getting a car.

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Nathreply
aussie.zone

Even an escooter that you can take on the train. Depends of course on where home and doctor are.

It can be two hours to go a 20 minute drive from suburb to suburb if PT insists on taking you via the city. A 20 minute drive is around the end of a comfortable escooter range.

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beengreply
discuss.tchncs.de

Can also take ebike on train AFAIK.

Plus bike is good for you and can ride on the road. Would not do/say the same about scooter.

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Nathreply
aussie.zone

While I happily ride my bike to work every day, I would not take it that far unless there was a shower and change of clothes at the other end.

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Swap of tshirt at work is all you need. You don't get that sweaty riding a bike if you're doing it everyday and just cruising. Much less on an ebike

Racing cars is another thing..

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aussie.zone

Here's an odd one.

Random dude probably 20yo rocks up this morning, starts whipper-snippering the front lawn. I go out ask him wtf are you doing, he says sorry I got the wrong address jumps in his car and drives off...

I'm still scratching my head.

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CEOofmyhouse56reply
aussie.zone

Same thing happened to us once. The dude did both nature strips. Beautiful job he did AND it happened to be my husband's birthday. He came back the following week to do across the road.

Husband thought I'd organised it as a surprise. Nope.

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Could be the scam where they do work then over bill you for it unauthorised?

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Braved the chilly air and got my partner his anti-sads from the pharmacy. I love using the local pharmacy instead of the chain; they know me now and it's so lovely having a little chat with the pharmacist and the cashiers. A little jaunt around the block and back home with a warm coffee.

All is well.

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aussie.zone

went out for a walk yesterday, ached just a little afterward but today I am 100% better

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I think I've lost a lot of fitness the past 8 months ๐Ÿ˜ž

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oztrin
aussie.zone

Just retested. Still positive. Like TinyBreak, the line showed up before the liquid got to the top of the window.
Not surprised, as I'm still definitely symptomatic and the cats are being very cuddly. I just wish Sammi wouldn't kick litter all over...

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TinyCat is all about the cuddles too. Its funny, I'm fine one minute then brain dead the next. Food deffo helps!

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aussie.zone

Went for a drive at lunch. On the way there I saw this... figure. Face totally covered, just sitting by the side of the road. Still there when I came back. Hadnt moved in 10 minutes so I figured I'd call the police non-emergency who directed me to 000. I'm really hoping it was just someone throwing out a sex doll or something. Now I'm worried it was just someone having a mental breakdown or something and I've made it worse by getting police/ambulance involved.

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CEOofmyhouse56reply
aussie.zone

You may have saved someone's life. Don't over think things. They're in the right hands now.

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yeah I hope so. Or at least the cops have a laugh at the sex doll being thrown away. Without seeing a face its impossible to know.

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aussie.zone

I think that's a great idea. Maybe check out Meetup and see if there's something interesting there?

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imoldgreeegreply
aussie.zone

I love dinner and movie solo. Or even take a book or mobile/laptop to a library and just hang. Often a good quiet warm option. I do that sometimes when I just want to get out

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There's a few coppers outside my place and because I cant see because of my fence I opened the gate and asked what's going on. The one copper says "yeah ah just someone tryna get away. Don't worry we got him". I said "no worries" shut the gate.

It was right outside my drive way so I couldn't use my binoculars ๐Ÿ˜”

Mind you I went out in my cat pjs and what I describe as a native American woollen blanket with sleeves. It's an interesting little number.

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aussie.zone

I wish I could fit on a cat tree in front of the heater and be cute. Maybe in the next life.

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lemmy.ml

Today is payday, I'm starting at an overdraft of $50. Gonna suck, can't get the new shoes I've been needing a while(my current ones have holes, which is fine when it isn't cold.) But I think I'll be fine. Lots of cheap ramen in my future.

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TinyBreakreply
aussie.zone

Big batch of bolognese frozen might almost be cheaper and healthier. At least it'll make you feel better in the cold.

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Oh yeah Lentils work super well in 'em. I'm partial to a big of roasted pumpkin in 'em too but I know thats subjective.

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aussie.zone

Ramen is great, love me noodles. Cheap meat and some broccolini and/or Bok Choy elevate them so much. Add Hoisin sauce and soy sauce and bam - you got yourself a restaurant quality meal right there

Bolognese is great for freezing, and the longer you leave it the better it tastes. Better if you can get the mince for cheap (right before it goes bad, when the shops have discounted it).

Rice is great paired with leftovers. If you have a rice cooker, add some paprika to the rice and water and then let it cook - the paprika will flavour the rice.

I'm not sure where you're located, but Cheaper by Miles is great for cheap groceries and deals. You are beholden to whatever they have in stock at the time, but cheap snacks, meats, veggies, noodles are usually stocked.

Regarding shoes: I feel that. Could try Savers or OP shops, they sometimes have really good quality shoes that have barely been worn, for cheaper than $50.

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aussie.zone

well suddenly the feeling sick makes sense, that was the fastest positive line I've ever seen on a rat test. It wasn't even a minute!

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aussie.zone

Crazy when that happens lol like "yup, definitely covid, no two ways about it"

I hope it isn't too bad for you, and that you feel better soon ๐Ÿ’œ

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Cheers, its not too bad to be honest. None of the brain fog of last time, just a light case of the dumb. More like a bad cold if anything.

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aussie.zone

Didn't really warm up today after a bungled site visit meant an hour in the cold without enough layers on. Total brain fog at work like I could barely remember my name let alone do my job. The sads are definitely hitting. I watched the last episode of Tales From The Loop which is sad enough itself, but somehow the thing that made me most emotional was seeing Cole walking the sunny meadows, flowers and grass waving in the breeze... I wanted to touch the sun...

Thinking back to the last few winters from 2020 on, they were all significant low points of the year - aside from getting my PR a bit over exactly a year ago. That was glorious until shtf in July at work.

Anyway, I know my risk factors, so I've arranged social things for all 3 of the next days, I'll try taking my meds again now that my sleep schedule has reset, and I'll prolly have a coffee at work tomorrow (green tea is not cutting it). I need external motivation to exercise, that's probably the biggest thing missing. If I get a decent tax return in July I think I'll look into a personal trainer for even a month, even though I'm very cagey/picky about such things.

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It sounds like you've got a plan, which is a great step. Exercise, for me, is almost as powerful as the meds I take for depression.

As an aside, tales from the loop is absolutely amazing and the body swap episode brought a tear to my eye.

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Catfish
aussie.zone

Semi hoarder parent is being forced into Care. Iโ€™m to write a list of things I want retrieved. Very difficult since Iโ€™ve not been to this particular house and everything I can think of wanting is super susceptible to rats so probably doesnโ€™t exist anymore.

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Seagoon_reply
aussie.zone

I've dealt with this situation, full on hoarder/slob lazy bastard. If it's personal and can be washed/disinfected then keep, can't be washed then good bye to it.

Photos, heirlooms, objet d'art, personal collections, documents.

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Catfishreply
aussie.zone

Iโ€™m doing this remote, so hard to judge. Guess Iโ€™ll ask for a video call? Pretty much everything sentimental I can think of is fabric, paper, or leather. Not optimistic given rats.

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I get that. The thing I want most is electronic, so washing isnโ€™t ok. Still have to find out if it actually still exists before deep dive cleaning protocol tool much

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Catfishreply
aussie.zone

Er, an emerging one who hasnโ€™t quite got to the legal limit? Deciding the solution to the rats stealing the dog food is to put out an extra bowl rather than dealing with the rats?

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There's definitely scales of hoarding behaviour where it's considered pathological beyond a certain point. The Clutter Image Rating Scale is one such scale used in Australia (PDF link). Most people don't become problem hoarders overnight.

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Still stuffy and gross. Worked up a sweat just loading the dishwasher and taking the garbage to the chute! I'm working today though for the first time this week at least.

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Tofu
aussie.zone

Breakfast ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ‰๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฅญ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿฅฆ๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿซ›๐Ÿ†๐Ÿ…๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฅฌ๐Ÿฅ’๐ŸŒฝ๐Ÿฅ•๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿซš๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿง…๐Ÿฅฏ๐Ÿž๐Ÿฅ–๐Ÿฅจ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿง‡๐Ÿฅž๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฅš๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿฅฉ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–๐Ÿซ“๐Ÿ•๐ŸŸ๐Ÿ”๐ŸŒญ๐Ÿฅ™๐Ÿง†๐ŸŒฎ๐ŸŒฏ๐Ÿฅ—๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿ๐Ÿฅ˜๐Ÿ›๐Ÿฃ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸฅŸ๐Ÿฆช๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿš๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ ๐Ÿค๐Ÿชผ๐Ÿฆ€๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿฅฎ๐Ÿข๐Ÿก๐Ÿง๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅง๐Ÿฆ๐Ÿจ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฅœ๐ŸŒฐ๐Ÿช๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฅ›โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿต๐Ÿบ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿฅค๐Ÿง‹๐Ÿงƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿง‰๐Ÿ”‹

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Tofureply

๐Ÿฅœ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‡๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ”จ

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Tofureply
aussie.zone

๐ŸŸ I assume you mean the regular variety and not the after eight one

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Yes, just after the regular variety thanks. I am generally in bed too early to take advantage of any after eight services

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Tofureply
aussie.zone

โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ„โ€๐ŸŸซ

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aussie.zone

Butter and brie baguette please. How long until the restaurant transitions to food truck?

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Tofureply

๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿฅ–

Not for another 3.5 weeks

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Tofureply
aussie.zone

๐Ÿงˆ๐Ÿฅ“๐Ÿง€๐Ÿฅ”๐Ÿ”ฅ

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Almost exactly Whinnieโ€™s recipe. You must be psychic.

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aussie.zone

It's so cold I don't want to do anything ๐Ÿ˜”

Supposed to go to the gym but it's freezing outside!

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TinyBreakreply
aussie.zone

those ones where you dont wanna go BUT you end up going are the BEST though. You feel like a god afterwards!

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aussie.zone

My house hasn't got insulation so I close pretty much every door and run the gas heater.

Not cheap but beats seeing my breath

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aussie.zone

Anyone got any office chair recommendations? Time for an upgrade with EOFY sales. Not looking to spend crazy money. My current chair is a cheapie from Officeworks which has served me well during the COVID years, but starting to get worn down and uncomfortable.

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the Bathurst from Officeworks is alright. I do seem to have to replace it ever 2 years or so though.

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aussie.zone

Nooo. I put my tin of charcoal pencils on my bed to do a quick stick vac and then they fell off. Snapped the leads off two of them. And it was a tin with plastic grooves for them to sit in too, intended to protect them during transport. But they were sharpened shorter so there was room at the top allowing them to fall and break at a vertical angle.

I'll sharpen them again.

If I had the energy I'd get a small shallow wooden box with a closure, cut a piece of foam to wedge inside, and then make slashes in the foam to hold the sharpened charcoals gently in place. Perhaps hollow out the foam around the tips to allow space so it doesn't put any pressure on the most delicate part.

If I wasn't constantly so exhausted and depressed with no proper workspace I could make some cool things.

Edit: Also the art book I'm working through very slowly is like $40-50 on ebay. It feels like all of the really solid tradish art books are going out of print and becoming really expensive if they're even available. I did see a bundle of three similar ones for about the same price ๐Ÿค” To be honest it's still cheaper than the art classes I see

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Thornburywitchreply
aussie.zone

Have you tried Anna's Archive? Link I don't have a problem using this for out of print stuff and stuff that Amazon Australia AND Goodreads has blocked for Australia. Also anything that's too bloody expensive and I can't find it secondhand.

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melbaboutownreply
aussie.zone

Ooh, ty! I don't think this particular book is out of copyright yet though (borrowed a copy from the library) so I hope this site doesn't get in strife...

Oops. It looks to be a torrent site and I don't have a vpn ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Edit: As much as I hate to use Amazon I managed to find a used copy in England for $30 with $5 delivery, I jumped on it because I think it's the best I'm gonna get.

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Thornburywitchreply
aussie.zone

There's a non-torrent option for 'slow connections' that I've been using, with few problems so far. Only problem if you could call it that is downloading items that are pdf files - takes a while and is more of a pain to read on desktop kindle. The epubs are easily readable on kindle.

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melbaboutownreply
aussie.zone

I'm worried about the legal side. I agree with torrenting in theory to archive stuff that would otherwise be lost, and the probability is low, but I can't afford to risk any hassles

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It might be a little flexible to protect them from my clumsiness. I have a sketching kit of that stiff non-woven fabric with elastic loops to hold those charcoals but don't trust it. If dropped or squashed even a slight angled impact might be enough to snap them off

Edit: Also the charcoal might rub off on the lining and transfer to my hands, and then get touched onto everything. That stuff is almost as bad as glitter

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Comment Iโ€™m not posting on that Other Site. Flair request: fed a boiled owl to my cats.

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Taleya
aussie.zone

Paaaakiiiidge

In other news, $boss has fallen to the same plague i had a couple weeks back and is rapidly learning empathy

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aussie.zone

Could I run a HDMI cable through my walls for less than the price of a cheap gaming PC?

It's one of those things that could theoretically be a dig job. But I don't have the tools or experience or the desire to get under the house

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TinyBreakreply
aussie.zone

depending on length? Yeah. Probably cheaper to get a sparky to do a professional job than it would be get an Xbox X or PS5 anyway. My brother in law doesnt even have a monitor, just leaves his rig plugged into the TV full time.

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tombruzzoreply
aussie.zone

About 10 metres in a straight line. I'm thinking a female to female cable in the wall, then I can run regular HDMI cables in and out. I've got a hectic rig with a 4090 one room over from the TV so it beats anything you could get for the $700-800 space

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Definitely the way to go. It's not a super difficult job if you're comfortable diy. But hiring someone shouldn't cost more than 500 total id think.

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Only problem is that you might need to upgrade the cable in a few years when new protocols come out (if you update your gaming PC and TV to newer stuff) but yeah getting some proper faceplates and a cable installed is a neat way to go about it. I think installing one and even 1 cable upgrade would be less than any kind of half decent gaming machine. It should be anyway.

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lemmy.ml

Could also try in home streaming options. You can stream the display from your PC to a TV. If either is on WiFi this can be pretty choppy.

I personally use Moonlight for this. It has an android TV app. Sunlight on the host PC since I have an amd GPU.

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I've got a Shield connected to the TV and I tried the Nvidia GeForce app. My PC is WiFi but the shield was Ethernet and there was too much delay for elden ring. So a racing game to entertain the kids won't work either.

Maybe I'll get them to run Ethernet between the two rooms whilst I'm at it as well

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Have gas ducted heating, is set at 22. I get cold. I can happily not need ac in summer, but winter without heating is intolerable.

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20 during day, 18 for sleeps, 17 if his lordship is out tomcatting (i run hot)

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Thornburywitchreply
aussie.zone

Eeek. If possible get it cleaned. An old ducted system that isn't cleaned is a major fire hazard. I believe the recommendation is for the system to be vacuumed out professionally at least once a year. More if it's running a lot. The build up of dust in the pipes is a serious fire hazard. Dust is extremely flammable, so one spark and the whole house goes up in flames and a duct fire is extremely hard to put out. I get mine cleaned once in autumn, so it's OK for the heavy usage season of winter. There are often deals through professional cleaning companies at about that time. This year I think I paid about $60 for my 5 vent system and it took them about 30 mins to do it. They do charge more for a large system of more than 7 vents. Well worth it imo. Actually, getting the ducts cleaned might solve some of the uneven heating problems too.

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Urk. Maybe mention it to your co-ordinator - maybe get it escalated a bit in importance. I know that maintenance is low on the budget totem pole, but this situation could be nasty if the house burns down.

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Thornburywitchreply
aussie.zone

The ducted heating is set at 20 deg. I turn it on when the temp drops to 15 deg. When it reaches 20 I turn it off as the house is good for maybe 3-4 hours before it drops to the 15 deg threshold again. This is sufficient for an evening, and the house is cooler and it's easier to sleep once the temperature drops down. In the morning I turn it on for an hour or so as this heats the bathroom to about 22 deg which is ideal for showering etc. and I always have a nice warm fluffy towel. I turn it off after that, as the sunshine (when there is any) keeps the house warm through the daylight hours. This does me for winter, and the bills aren't too outrageous so far. Also, running the ducted heating on this schedule means that in rainy weather I can put any wet washing on a rack over a vent in the morning and it's dry and ready to put away by the time I come home. Heating is so damn subjective and personal - what suits one person might not suit another.

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Ducted heating isn't as efficient or as cost effective as a split system. But I like having a bit of contrast in the temperature. Two hours or so each day is doable cost wise for me. I can't imagine having it on 24/7 though.

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About 21-22. Insulation isnโ€™t great here and will drop back slowly to 18, the skylights open vents arenโ€™t helping either.

Trying to save on energy so Iโ€™ve gone for the oodie instead of keeping the heating on after seeing my last power bill skyrocket.

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