memesbyUltragigagigantic Sometimes I wonder why I ever agree to leave the basement.View original on lemmy.world606Comments11
FFlashMobOfOne lemmy.worldIt's exactly like that. Which is why I generally don't make plans until day of anymore.20
ssome_guy lemmy.sdf.orgI have to give myself a pep talk most of the time. "You know you'll have a good time. You'll be glad you went." It's easier now that I'm in a relationship and it's not just me alone for most things.20
deegeese sopuli.xyz1Hide 1 replyI invite people over. Then the social cost of cancelling is too high and I can cope with anxiety by preparing for the party.10
ssheogorath replylemmy.worldThis is what I do. And I'm not an introvert. I spent too much time on people's homes when I was a kid because I didn't have a lot growing up. Now, since I got something I always invite people over for dinner or for some LAN party session.3
This is why I hate past me
I refer to past me as harassing present me by making plans.
I’m not a fan of future me cause I know he’s gonna be a dick about it.
It's exactly like that.
Which is why I generally don't make plans until day of anymore.
I have to give myself a pep talk most of the time. "You know you'll have a good time. You'll be glad you went."
It's easier now that I'm in a relationship and it's not just me alone for most things.
This is so true that it actually hurts to read.
I invite people over. Then the social cost of cancelling is too high and I can cope with anxiety by preparing for the party.
This is what I do. And I'm not an introvert. I spent too much time on people's homes when I was a kid because I didn't have a lot growing up. Now, since I got something I always invite people over for dinner or for some LAN party session.
What a boring post from start to finish. Facile.
Shallow and pedantic.
Mm yes, I agree, shallow and pedantic.